I'm a lady lover, what can I say... a hopeless romantic perhaps. I believe truly that women, the ladies, are stronger, faster, more able then we are. Capable of taking their duties with more dedication and passion and capable of doing so much better then us...
Yet, we guys are quite passionate as well, perhaps even more passionate... That is an advantage I see that we have over them... But such passion is rather unseen. For passion also means having a sensitive heart. Even if you act tough, you know you still have a sensitive spot, something that makes you blush, something that makes you shy, something you want to avoid since it doesn't make you feel 'Manly'...
But this superiority women hold over us is rather disturbing as well. Through seduction, through a few simple words... They can put on airs of emotions, and we, no matter how right we are, no matter how sensitive we truly are, are depicted as the bad guy and end up being harmed deeply, though we put on airs and try to fix the situation as those around want us to... Quite disturbing isn't it?
Yeah, we all hear about the rapes and whatnot, girls are the victim and guys get into jail. I dislike rape, I wish those guys without control over themselves rot to hell... But what of guys getting raped by girls? You never hear of such things, even though it is feasable, right?
There's also sexual harrasment, have you ever heard of a guy complaining of such things? Some would, but it's not right for a guy to do such things isn't it? No matter what, most likely pride will get in the way or they'll just laugh it off.
Girls have the upper hand in many things, through manipulation they can get nearly everything they want. By looking sad and hurt they can avoid a beating or punishment...
Though it's not to say that girls nowadays are evil deceitful creatures, far from it. Though I'm simply saying... it's hard to find a lady nowadays, y'know... a girl of your dreams, those that are kind, gentle, sweet yet strong, passionate and brilliant. The perfect girl, capable of taking away your pain without adding any further, a girl whom you want to love, to hold and to make her happy, even if it would mean for you to lose her, to live in pain...
Such a girl is so rare nowadays, it's just refreshing to be around one whom has even just a single aspect of that kind of girl, kindness, modesty, intelligence, compassion, patience...
Well, I'll ramble on about this another time.
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[ Forever: Art of life ] Through the eyes of the Beast of Blood, Malice.
I am but a simple guy, I still have a lot to learn, a lot to see... So therefore, I shall try to impart all that I know and do my best as well... That is, I shall try to give you all I know, and all I've seen, about this strange art which is life.
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The thing men need to remember is that being "masculine" isn't about putting on the "tough guy" bravdo. It's more or less about being true to your heart. Guys want a girl to hold, of course we do.. it's in our nature. That doesn't mean all guys want to do is to go to bed with a girl, there's such a HUGE misunderstanding in this.
I've honestly asked some people "what's the difference between a pervert and a peeping tom?" Care to know my answer? (Wouldn't matter since I'll tell you anyway) Peeping tom's have no respect for a girl's/woman's privacy, but a pervert (In my opnion, 'cuz there are many different types honestly) thinks lecherously. That ain't so bad.. I don't think when you have a lustful thought it's a bad thing.. how can it be?
That'd be like saying having sex is bad, which if it were the human race would've been doomed a LONG time ago... actually, it would've been dead. sweatdrop
AND that's my two cents, mrgreen