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Again I find myself talking to a girl, who I really don't know, and she was telling me the most interesting story of all. She was talking about how in High school she would spend hours on how she looks and sometimes she would spend more time worrying about how she looked than anything else. She spoke of how she was always checking her looks in mirror, always fiddling with her hair and always running off the the bathroom to make sure her make-up was perfect.

Yet here is the kicker, she doesn't do that here at all. Instead she just doesn't care about what she looks like and BAM! Guys are flocking to her more than they did in high school. I told her it is because she stopped fussing! She stops caring and stops worrying about it, this let her be more confident and able to just get things done, and guys look at that as sexy. I'm not saying that you should stop trying to look your best, I'm saying that once you got it on and done, LEAVE IT THE HELL ALONE! Messing with it is not going to make it look any better.