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no one ever reads this so I figure I can rant and rave in it all I want. Now I have this guy friend. Great guy absolutely great and he has this girlfriend he likes but she seems to talk and hang out with this other girl and his girl is starting to get jealous. So he asks me,'What do I do? I mean you always give out great advice.' Kind of ironic seeing as I haven't had a boyfriend in like 5 years. So I ask why does he hang out wiht the other girl so often and why he and his girlfriend have so many problems. He tells me that the other girl is really cool and his girlfriend is starting to be very mean to him. I told him that maybe he should, even if it causes him some problems that he should talk to his friend and ask if it would be okay if they just had some more distance between them because his girlfriend is feeling threatend. That true friends will understand why he asks that and will tell them that when their girlfriend begins to relax more that they can hang out more.

Maybe I was wrong in telling him this but it make sense right? I mean I would personally understand if one of my friends told me that and would respect their wishes. Or was I wrong? should I have told him to tell his girlfriend to get over it?