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Ok you know what? I'm really getting sick of this so I might as well write it all in my journal, just to get it out of my system.

Why in the HELL do some girls worry about how they look?? They're completley shallow, whether they deny it or not. Girls like that are ******** shallow! All they care about is getting all the hot boys by their looks and not caring about anything else that really matters. I've seen too many girls like that. And for once, I'm glad none of my friends are like that. I mean, if your naturally beautiful, fine. Who really cares. Looks are only semi-important. What really matters is your persoanlity. Yeah you could be the best PlayBoy model there is, but you weren't smart enough to get a better more WORTH WHILE job now were you? Yeah the pay is good, yeah people love you, but that's hardly true. They love your BODY. That's all you want them to notice.

I'm not saying I hate girls who look beautiful. And I'm not saying that because I have low self-esteem myself. In fact, I love my body, even if I'm not the skinniest or the one who uses make up to hide my real face. I don't care about any of that. The most important thing for me is to get an education, get a decent job, have a husband, and maybe a daughter and son. My looks are the least of my worries. But SOME girls think differently. THEY feel looks are more important and they only focus on that. They don't want to learn anything, because their PlayBoy job doesn't require a brain. Just a massive ego. Why the hell would you go and waste your life on looks? I mean look: I know girls who look not all that great, like myself, and they're geniuses because they want a life. I also know girls who look beautiful, and they still have brains. Looks have importance, but only temporaily.

Yes, I understand that first impressions depend on looks, but what really attracts someone is what's on the inside. For all we know, you could be beautiful, but a real b***h on the inside. Who wants to go out with someone like that? Only a crazy person that's who. I have guy friends who wanted to hang out with me because I have personality. My ego isn't as big as my head, like some of ya'll, and I can THINK. I want to be smart, I don't want to sell my body to pointless money making jobs. I'll admit, I'm a tomboy. So go ahead, laugh at me. I'm not like any of those girls who dress up like dolls. I take showers every other day, My room is a mess, I listen to metal and punk rock, and I wear PANTS. OMG, I don't wear dresses or skirts like a real girl! Dude, I don't WANT to be a real girl. But that's not the point of my ranting and bitching this fine Monday morning.

All I'm saying is that some girls really get on my nerves when they complain about how looks should be important. They aren't all that important. Yes, they have importance, but very little. It's there, but people like me really pay attention to them. Ok so you want to look nice, that's fine. Someone who wants to look nice and not go overboard is someone who understands it's rather important, but not that much. Poeple who b***h about it however, are those who are full of bullshit. People who b***h about the importance of looks are full of bullshit. Show me someone whos gone through life, JUST with looks. They've improved on nothing BUT their looks, and I'll show you the most shallow asswipe in the world. I'll show you a failure at understanding life.