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Ninja-ing my way through Life
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Bex (Gennerios!)[Which is funnier? A normal person in a box with cobras? Or a MIME in a box with cobras? Scott says:
but nothing much has happened, at all. Besides being burried under my homework.
Effi says:
There you go.
Effi says:
Rant or find something.
Effi says:
Bash ideas into the ground.
Effi says:
Say how you can't stand anti-relationship people.
Effi says:
Smoking pot isn't good, for young children. Write about that.
Effi says:
Talking about dancing.
Effi says:
Qrite a list of things that make you nervous or giggle or tired.
Effi says:
*Write
Bex (Gennerios!)[Which is funnier? A normal person in a box with cobras? Or a MIME in a box with cobras? Scott says:
So you just basically want me to ramble pointlessly so that you'll have something to read?
Effi says:
Yes.


The stuff in italics? Yeah, and actual tidbit of an MSN convo. Effi has willed me ever so loudly to blog. I won't rant about how much homework I have, because that's just plain old stupid and whiney.

Maybe I will voice my opinions on anti-reltionship people though, however it will ot be along the lines of 'I hate anti-relationship people' because that would imply that wether or not a person is anti-relationship makes or breaks a friendship. It also implies that I hate people, I don't think I honestly hate anyone.

Anyways, I know that Effi is anti-relationship, but she has her reasons. I'm not really sure what it means to be anti or pro relationship. As the majority (if not all) of you who read this journal know, I am in a relationship right now. But what constitutes as being pro-relationship? My view on relationships in general is that you sure as cheese( I say sure of cheese because I am rather sure about the concept of cheese) don't need a relationship to survive. It's not a really important factor in life when you're the age we are now. There are more important things to worry about, (ie school, friends, possible a job, the general confusion that is teenager) and to take a point of Effi, chances are better then not that when you graduate something will happen to your relationship should you have one.

That being said, if you really like someone and they happen to show an interest in you, by all means go for it. You could have something really special with that person and it would make you incredibly happy, and being happy is something most people could stand to have a little more of in their lives. Wether or not it's love (cuz that's a really strong four-letter word) being with someone you care for is just plain old great. Even if it ends up ending because of graduation, or maybe something worse.

As of right now, I love Scott. I don't know where it'll be in a few years. I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.

Second Point: Smoking pot isn't good for young children. Period.

Third Point: I like dancing, it combines exercise with making a complete a** of yourself, often whilest a large corwd of people are doing the exact same thing as you.

Things that make me nervous/giggle/tired (you get to pick which thing goes with what) :
- Fluffy things
- Alice in Wonderland
- Public Speaking
- Dancing
- Friends
- Homework
- Sleep
- Sugar
- English class
- Unit tests
- Math
- Hugs
- Scanners
- Wacky hair-styles
- Inside jokes
- Soccer
- Band
- BWWE
- Squirrels
- My job

La fin

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  • User Comments: [3]
    <i>Anyways, I know that Effi is anti-relationship, but she has her reasons. I'm not really sure what it means to be anti or pro relationship. As the majority (if not all) of you who read this journal know, I am in a relationship right now. But what constitutes as being pro-relationship? My view on relationships in general is that you sure as cheese( I say sure of cheese because I am rather sure about the concept of cheese) don't need a relationship to survive. It's not a really important factor in life when you're the age we are now. There are more important things to worry about, (ie school, friends, possible a job, the general confusion that is teenager) and to take a point of Effi, chances are better then not that when you graduate something will happen to your relationship should you have one. </i> It's true, sadly. I highly doubt that you and Scott will find yourselves all happy giddy and end up with a mountain of children with his last name. It just won't happen, realisitically. People seem to do this for the possibility that some happy-giddy whatever will happen. If you ask me, nothing has really changed now that Beccy and Scott are going out. All that's different is a fancy title. <i>That being said, if you really like someone and they happen to show an interest in you, by all means go for it. You could have something really special with that person and it would make you incredibly happy, and being happy is something most people could stand to have a little more of in their lives. Wether or not it's love (cuz that's a really strong four-letter word) being with someone you care for is just plain old great. Even if it ends up ending because of graduation, or maybe something worse. </i> You can never gantentee anything about any relationship. An abusive relationship probably doesn't make people happy. A friendship is also just as special as a romantic relationship. Yet, friendships are majorly undervalued. This may just be my thoughts, but I am sure that it is remotely correct. I can almost garentee that any relationship now is not love. Love is something that never gives up, in my opinion. If your relationship ends, it csnnot be formed by love, can it be? Aside from that, why is happy such a big thing? I am perfectly good without dancing around full of shitless nonsense about faeries and happiness. Happiness isn't something that is a constantly good thing. The saying "Everything in moderation" does have some value.

    comment Mini Effi · Community Member · Tue Mar 01, 2005 @ 11:29pm
    Happiness isn't something that is a constantly good thing.

    Happiness
    n 1: state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy [syn: felicity] [ant: unhappiness] 2: emotions experienced when in a state of well-being

    emotions experienced when in a state of well-being
    Well-being is a good thing, therefore being happy is good as it's something you experiance when you are well.

    It's of course likely that stuff is going to happen to me and Scott's relationship. But I don't care about that right now, I care about him and he's important to me. However I refuse to see all good events in my life as doomed from the beginning just because they may not last forever.

    comment [Tetris.Ninja] · Community Member · Wed Mar 02, 2005 @ 12:19am
    <i>Happiness n 1: state of well-being characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy [syn: felicity] [ant: unhappiness] 2: emotions experienced when in a state of well-being emotions experienced when in a state of well-being Well-being is a good thing, therefore being happy is good as it's something you experiance when you are well. </i> I said constant happiness isn't a good thing. And I still stick by it. You need sadness to know what it is to be happy and you need all emotions to be human. Just being happy is as unhamn as just being sad or just being jealous. Everybody needs a bit of every emotion. <b>Happy:</b> adj 1: enjoying or showing or marked by joy or pleasure or good fortune; "a happy smile"; "spent many happy days on the beach"; "a happy marriage" [ant: unhappy] 2: experiencing pleasure or joy; "happy you are here"; "pleased with the good news" [syn: pleased] 3: marked by good fortune; "a felicitous life"; "a happy outcome" [syn: felicitous] 4: satisfied; enjoying well-being and contentment; "felt content with her lot"; "quite happy to let things go on as they are" <b>5: exaggerated feeling of well-being or elation</b> [syn: euphoric] [ant: dysphoric] 6: well expressed and to the point; "a happy turn of phrase"; "a few well-chosen words"; "a felicitous comment" [syn: well-chosen] Exaggerated, eh? Try and think of the message I am trying to convey with the note that being happy, is an exaggeration of emotion. adj 5: Characterized by a spontaneous or obsessive inclination to use something. Often used in combination: trigger-happy. Hmmm, obsessive? I never considered damaging effects such as that. <i>It's of course likely that stuff is going to happen to me and Scott's relationship. But I don't care about that right now, I care about him and he's important to me. However I refuse to see all good events in my life as doomed from the beginning just because they may not last forever. </i> Sorry then, Hun, from runing your happy world of flowers and rainbows. there is such thing as pain. Just because you have so far managed to avoid it, doesn't mean it won't happen. If you want to go along believe that it is "doomed", to use your words and not mine, then go ahead. I am just pointing out that the <i>happiness</i> won't last forever. Sure, Scott is important to you. You have made it very clear. But what will happen when he's not there any more. You guys end this relationship, what's there next? Ever thought that maybe there will be some hurt there? I don't think you will ever understand. being you, it would be impossible. Not that you not being able to understand me is a bad thing. Nothing is bad, it just is a thing.

    comment Mini Effi · Community Member · Wed Mar 02, 2005 @ 01:43am
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