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So a friend of mine of Gaia once posted this in his journal. Its only about the smartest thing I've ever heard. Especially since a guy posted it. I admire him greatly.

A Guy's Thoughts on Women:

1. Guys appreciate a girl who dress well. I don't mean fancy clothes or dresses, but a girl who can pick out an outfit that matches their body type and wears it well.
2. We like you better when you dress like yourself, instead of some one's stereotype. You're personal fashion is what looks hot on you.
3. Make up is optional. You may not think so, but we'd rather see what you look like, not painted up to impress.
4. Confidence in yourself is dead sexy and a major turn on.
5. Some of us guys find tans/tan lines far from sexy and more like repulsive.
6. A lot of us guys think small breast are extremely sexy, have a more natural and beautiful shape. Sure, we can have fun with big ones, but small look better over all.
7. Even the most stuck up, suit wearing guy thinks punk/goth chicks are hot if the get-up works on the girl.
8. We don't mind if you wear our shirts, hell the thought of what has now been in it makes it and grazing against the fabric makes it even better, just as long as we get them back.
9. We are going to look at other girls. We still love you and will always want to be with you as long as we can, but we'll still look. Nothing personal, we just like looking at pretty women.
10. We get jealous of other guys around you because we're really afraid you'll leave us for them. It's not all about macho-bullshit, a lot of the time it's about insecurity.
11. All guys have porn. You can throw it out, we will get more. Nothing personal again, we just like porn. Why do you think we're on the net when you're not here? We're visual creatures. Besides, we know why you read all those trashy romace novels and erotica.
12. Just because we dress like we don't care most the time, doesn't mean we don't know how to sport some style ourselves.
13. Jeans are good for a couple of days of wearing at a time, you may not think so, but we're not gonna change that habit.
14. We masturbate. Even when in a relationship. Some times you just got to relieve yourself. We know you do it too, even if you don't admit it.
15. You could save $100 of dollars in gifts for us by giving us suggestive, seductive, or down right nude pictures of yourself. Most guys would take that over an X-box any day. Again, visual creatures.
16. Nerdy is sexy. Glasses look great on girls.
17. Sometimes we like it when you take charge. We don't like to make all the decisions. Don't be afraid to dominate.
18. We don't care if your bras and panties match. If we wanted a lingerie model, we would have went for one....and got shot down in a seconds.
19. It's ok if you want to pay on a date. We pay to impress you, whether we have the money to or not. Feel free to ask to chip in. We'll still probably say no, but we'll at least know you thought about it.
20. Sometimes, just sometimes, we enjoy a chick flick too. Especially if you're snuggling up next to us.