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Just crap now. o-o;
Well aren't you special?
I have enemies, and I have friends. I usually keep my bitchings of certain people on AIM, but occasionally my cup runneth over. Today, my journal is my splash guard.

Actually, I'm going to target one particular person today. One who possesses such a cult following that I will probably make even more enemies, be flamed, etc.

Oh no, heaven forbid my popularity in Breedables sink EVEN further because minions are commanded to hate me. Ha.

Okay then, the reason for the splash guard is that I found out today that a person I HIGHLY distaste logged onto her account, traded an expensive item of said person's off onto her account, then used them to AB a Seraphii. Not just any Seraphii though, but the exact same concept that my friend had thought up for a Seraphii and voiced interest in publicly.

Granted, many think that concept theft isn't as bad as actually stealing tangible items, but with the amount of work I'm sure this person put into their Seraphii concept, I say it is. Even if the concept theft is negated, the offender STILL stole a high priced item [mini's to be exact] right off my friend's account.

My friend does not want to go to the mods with this for reasons her own though. I would have done otherwise.

But no ladies and gentlemen, that is not all.

This person also, despite her own adored artistic talent, has gone off to beg to some sweet "top dogs" of the R&C. Why? Because she claims she is poor and she wants them to do charity auctions for her. Now I have no problem with charity auctions, but the fact is that this girl can definately do art auctions herself and get loads of gold [I've seen her do it in the past.] Heaven forbid she have to WORK to get what she wants, or needs, however she's putting it.

Ahh, I'm tired of using pronouns for her. If you haven't figured it already, this person is Chai, and I don't care if she reads this [which she probably will]. This is my journal, and I'm allowed to express my distaste for people in it. Flame me and I'll just find it amusing. biggrin

Now, that's just the recent stuff.

She also runs a Breedables that the other person does all the work, except the art, of and gets none of the profits and none of the 'glory' so to speak. If this person stopped working, or left, then not only would the Breedables die, this person would be made out to be the bad guy as well.

I also remember a time, in the Somonen thread, when Chai busted out in the thread squealing about getting a Fa'e. At this point I think 2nd Gens were the only way to get a Fa'e, and as if on cue, Chai started talking about how she's going to get a Fa'e child in the far far future. The funny thing was, the guardian who she'd be getting a Fa'e child from had agreed to none of this, and really didn't know that Chai had gone off to flaunt. That was just something that ticked me off as a guardian. Meh.

Oh, and I personally love her signature bitchings, or self-lovings, whichever you like better. I'd like to say that these were screenshotted so I could laugh my a** off, and they're from Fa'e HQ. Screenshots: [x] [x] [x]

I personally like the last one, since she went off complaining about "being poor" to other people just so they'd pity her. Mmm, is that hypocrite I smell?

Most importantly, I'm tired of her hurting my friend.

Read Chai: You are young, immature, and greedy. It seems that you are only nice when you want something, and that's usually power, money, pets, art, and stature. It doesn't matter who you hurt or try to swindle, as long as things work out for you. Your ego needs to be deflated, your cult dismembered, and some sense knocked into you. Oh yeah, must not forget that you're a hypocrite as well.

Have a nice day everyone. Please direct all comments about this journal ON this journal. No PMs, IMs, etc. Thanks.


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  • User Comments: [29]
    I don't know whether to cheer or to stab someone.

    comment Black Duvet · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 06:09pm
    *agrees with everything wholeheartedly*

    *defends her Cerecere*

    comment Lucifer Force · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 08:14pm
    Agreed, agreed, agreed 100%'lly.

    <3 Cerena deserves way better than that.


    comment Seeno · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 08:30pm
    ... wtf XD;

    comment yaccck · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 08:47pm
    o.O Woah. That's pretty screwed up if it's completely accurate. (Don't flame me, I'm not saying it's not. I'm simply assessing that there are two sides to every story.) If it is true, Cerena should def. report her because it's complete bullshit and it just doesn't make sense if she doesn't. *shrugs* Just my opinion.

    comment Angel Below · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 09:59pm
    I would say report it to a mod on Cere's behalf and let the mod sort it out. No matter who's right, starting a flame war won't help anything confused

    comment kalindara · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 10:05pm
    Kali may be right on that one sweatdrop

    comment Eamane · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 10:15pm
    Though I'm not entirely familiar with the situation, I can understand where you're coming from. She's really crossed the line here.

    More power to you and everyone else who's for the cause.

    comment White Feather · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 11:17pm
    omg wow this is so amusing. XD;; i didn't know i was popular enough to have critics lmao

    comment BigglyWiggly · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 11:19pm
    Jeeeeezus.

    comment Bennali Sundragyn · Community Member · Thu Nov 10, 2005 @ 11:24pm
    Hm. Knowing what I do about the situation (i.e. not very much), it hardly seems appropriate to call this situation amusing. I'd say work it out amongst yourself, but there already seems to be enough feeling on the matter to need a mod.

    Of course, then there's the problem of a perceived lack of impartiality, considering how active and well-liked (well, as far as I can tell) both sides are.

    Query: If the item was stolen, why hasn't this been brought up with the Seraphii shopowner? Or if it has... well, it's not really my place in the conflict to ask why action hasn't been taken.

    Yet another reason no one knows my password. Not like I have anything anyone wants.

    comment Austismo · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 12:10am
    You're right masked. It isn't amusing, though it's ironic that Chai thinks it is.

    comment XBear · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 12:19am
    @Kali> The crux of this issue is a personality problem - it's not anything anyone, Gorachai excepted, can deal with, mod or no. Yeah, taking Cere's minis is theft, and Chai can be permanently banned for her actions should Cere decide to report*... But that's not exactly what XBear's pressuring.

    However, as users on this site, we are bound to meet people who rub you the wrong way in attitude, personality, etc, and you're expected to put up with or ignore it altogether.

    *And I'd like to suggest that everyone respect Cere's ultimatum, regardless if she decides to report the scam or not. This is an issue between Gorachii and herself.

    @Gorachii>
    quote: "I'm not even going to try to defend myself. XD;; this is so stupid." Passive-aggressive, now, aren't you. neutral

    Excusing your behavior with popularity is a poor bid for self justification. Personally, I find your response towards XBear's genuine concern immature, and honestly, beneath you.

    comment kheleksul · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 12:24am
    @kheleksul> But wouldn't it also involve the Seraphii shopowner, who was paid in stolen goods?

    And, finally, I would like to say to Cerena and anyone else who feels the same way, if you're tired of being used, for heaven's sake DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. If you don't take the actions to solve the problem and "take it like a martyr" instead, you're more likely to be victimized and no one gains any respect for your turning the other cheek. Allowing yourself to be a doormat doesn't make you a good person.

    There may be issues I'm not aware of preventing her from reporting it (possibility to IRL conflict, blackmail, etc, etc, etc), but for what I'm seeing right now, neither Gorachii or Cerena is 100% right.

    comment Austismo · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:10am
    i dont really know what to think right now.. im some what speachless.



    comment Deaconis · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:13am
    I don't really know the full backstory on everything, since I haven't been around gaia that often, and although I remain neutral, I still think I should give my two cents..

    First off.. just the facts.

    Chai didn't steal the miniwings, they belonged to her to begin with. She let Cere borrow them, and then took them back later to AB the Seraphii. And the actual idea for the seraphii was Lena's, not Cere's.. it's true that Cere expressed interest in the ghost seraphii, and Remiel is one of her signature names, but they've already straightened out the whole thing, so... I think that should stay between them, it really isn't anyone else's business.

    Also, the 'charity' auctions aren't charity at all... she asked me if we could do a joint auction, and I agreed to once all my other priorities (commissions, schoolwork, unfinished projects XD) were taken care of. True, she could probably make a lot of gold just doing an auction on her own, but maybe she'd prefer to do one with other people.. I dunno. :O

    Other than that... X, I understand trying to stick up for Cere, especially since I'm the exact same way about my friends. But I really don't think it was necessary to post a public journal entry denouncing Chai, especially when a lot of it is blown way out of proportion or incorrect information.

    As a sidenote, I also think it's pretty messed up that people who I've seen talk to chai and be nice to her are leaving comments on this entry or in threads that make it seem like they hate her now, without even getting her side.

    comment Precious Flame · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:24am
    @PF> Ah, well, that makes some sense. I didn't know that Cerena was just borrowing them. That was my major issue with the situation (though I think it's a bit rude to log on to someone's account like that, it was probably part of the arrangement if the wings needed to be retrieved quickly). That perhaps explains why the modly wrath wasn't summoned. *shrugs* My point about doing something if you don't want to be victimized still stands. Thanks for the info, Precious Flame.

    comment Austismo · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:33am
    Thank you for clearing some things up PF, though I would have rather Chai been the one to say all this. This only seems like she's throwing around weight. DD: No offense PF.

    Cere had told me that Chai GAVE her the wings to replace the ones she gave up for BD's appointment. And that was when she FIRST got the wings. Besides, if they were being "borrowed" then why did Chai have to trade them back behind Cere's back, without telling her in a PM or ANYTHING? :/ You still say she "took them back" from Cere, as opposed to at least informing Cere. D:

    Maybe the auction stuff was incorrect information, maybe not, but that's just what I was told.

    About it being in my journal, I see no problem with that since it was me ranting and I didn't post anything about "READ MY JOURNAL NOW scream "

    And with the last statement, people tolerate people they don't like in threads because it can't be avoided. I'm nice to those I don't like in Fa'e thread because I don't want to cause trouble in the Fa'e thread. I bet it's the same in other threads, be civil and nonconfrontational so that giant pots of drama don't spill over into other people's threads.

    I.E. So people can't use their signifigance in the forum as weight to fling around. Like someone only being courageous when they have an army of followers behind them instead of being confident themselves. :/ I don't quite respect that. Hence how I have NOT mentioned this in any of the threads, or anywhere else on Gaia.

    comment XBear · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:49am
    @maskedquerade> This may come as a bit redundant, but Chai pm'ed me and explained the mini theft (that was not) after my post. And seeing as Lena was not paid with contraband, then it really is something that Chai and Cere should deal with personally, without outside input or moderator action.

    My comments regarding Chai's handling of this, to use Maskedquerade's words, still stands. People are treating this seriously while Chai's comments seem to be making light of the entire situation.

    comment kheleksul · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:57am
    @xbear-- Why don't you get Cere to speak for herself? Why do people have to take your word for it when maybe you're not telling the truth about it. I don't think you have any right to use Cere in speaking your dislike against me unless Cere herself is speaking. ;;

    Quote:
    Hence how I have NOT mentioned this in any of the threads, or anywhere else on Gaia.


    But then you posted it in your journal and wrote "IMPORTANT JOURNAL UPDATE" in bold red in your sig. Cool.

    I really don't want to argue with anyone. If somebody has a question for me, I even invited them in my sig. PM me if you want to clear stuff up. Otherwise... yeah. ;;

    And um I didn't ask PF to defend me or anything. If she genuinely feels concerned about the issue, I don't see why you have to insinuate there is an ulterior motive or that I forced her into it.

    Edit: Jesus, please stop messaging my friends, guys. They have nothing to do with it. If you want to talk to Cere, that's fine, but I don't see what Phiisu and Silveh have to do with this. ;;

    comment BigglyWiggly · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 01:57am
    I personally think there's a difference between me saying I have an important journal post so that people would come HERE as opposed to discussing it in OTHER PEOPLE'S threads, like you have been doing in Seraphii. I didn't put anything like "HOMG CHAI'S A [insert offensive insult here]! LOOK HERE!"

    I posted this in my journal to rant because Cere was hurt, by you... again.

    Also I never said anyone HAD to take my word for it... I just posted my opinion in my journal. Notice I haven't FLAMED anyone who has disagreed with me.

    Nor did I tell anyone to PM Cere, or you, or anyone else. And especially not me.

    Chai I would appreciate if you give me the same 'respect' [in quotes only because you probably just scoffed at it] that I gave you by not charging into threads and whining/complaining/bitching/etc. about the situation.

    It's easier to voice your opinion behind a body guard then if you stood up on your own in front of a crowd and said it. Maybe that's another reason why Bush has the SS. >.>;

    comment XBear · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 02:10am
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    Edit: Jesus, please stop messaging my friends, guys. They have nothing to do with it. If you want to talk to Cere, that's fine, but I don't see what Phiisu and Silveh have to do with this. ;;


    Not cool, guys. Seriously, if there's no theft issue, then it's not anyone else's business. If you're someone's friend then support your friend. Don't harrass someone and say it's on behalf of said friend.

    ... This is why I said take it to a mod when it sounded like theft. Nothing good comes of getting a mass of people involved, just pointless flame wars and personal attacks.

    EDIT: What people say in journals are one thing. But PMing uninvolved people is lame.

    comment kalindara · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 02:11am
    Agreed Kali.

    And changed the my sig since that was Chai's qualm. 3nodding

    comment XBear · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 02:20am
    @xbear- I tried to clear up the confusion people had concerning the matter. I'm sorry you felt I was being disrespectful, or something. Deaconis approached me in the thread and I replied to him in the thread.

    And I don't see how I have a bodyguard. I know that you discuss me behind my back to your friends, so I don't see why I can't express my concern over this issue to people like PF. Unless you're talking about something else, because mostly what I see in this journal is people taking your side, not mine. I don't really understand what you're trying to get out of this journal entry aside from festering more hatred... ;; Because it's really not improving the situation.

    comment BigglyWiggly · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 02:24am
    I was talking about discussing it in other peoples' threads, where others are bound to join in. Also, I see people taking Cere's side, not so much mine. Cere has minis again now [no clue how], so that issue is dead. And the body guard thing was a metaphor... B; I'm sorry you didn't get that. Just like I'm a [i]little[/i] more bold online than face to face, everybody is though. Granted, I'm a b***h offline too, but I have lots of friends that like me, and a lot of people that respect how brutally honest I am [i.e. mean] and I will admit it. It's easier to voice your opinion where you don't see someone's face and if your friends are behind you. [quote]I know that you discuss me behind my back to your friends, so I don't see why I can't express my concern over this issue to people like PF.[/quote] Mmm, acusations. *Eats for midnight snack.* I have no problem saying that I discuss my opinions of situations and people to my friends on AIM. I think that most EVERYONE does. Which is good, because it once again keeps things out of other peoples' threads among other things. Let me say something. All girls are manipulative, that's how we're taught to be and it sucks, but you honestly can't chastize me for bitching about bad things to my friends in private conversations. Everyone does that. That's one of the things friends are for. Also, I have yet to see someone start grabbing pitchforks and proclaiming to the world that they hate you Chai. If anyone is going to get s**t for this, it's me who brought it out in the open cause I was tired of s**t. I am fully aware of this and accept the consequences of my actions. If people hate me for this, so be it. If I start a breedable and don't do as well because I'm disliked, so be it. If all my friends suddenly turn around and hate me, so be it. Whatever the ends I'm proud that I stood up for my friend, my morals, and finally did s**t about something I thought was wrong despite not being big and popular anywhere. Damn proud.

    comment XBear · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 02:39am
    Alright, that's cool. Whatever. : D

    comment BigglyWiggly · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 03:12am
    Hey guys.. could you please stop fighting now? You know, Cere didn't really even want any of this to happen, or KNOW about it.. o_o personal bitchfests can go elsewhere, plzkthnx. (I know this is your journal and all, X, but still. Leave Cer out of this for now.)

    comment Black Duvet · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 04:46pm
    Hi this is old but I'm going to leave a comment on it anyways.

    The only thing I'm peeved about is saying that Cere came up with the idea of the ghost element when she did not. 8D Like PF said, perhaps she had shown interest in it, but well.. so did many others.

    I don't know anything about the name Remiel if that was a problem considering I know neither Chai nor Cerena very well. o_o

    But I'm glad its all sorted out now!
    And even if it was "stolen" goods, I'd gladly return the minis.

    comment Aeso · Community Member · Fri Nov 11, 2005 @ 09:59pm
    Hm. Well, Chai already knows I don't appreciate her ego.

    The rest of this stuff doesn't really pertain to me except I'm tired of seeing Cere being treated like s**t. So stop it.

    comment JadeEye · Community Member · Sat Nov 12, 2005 @ 06:56am
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