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People always say that things happen for a reason, and to be honest I didn’t really believe that. We always look for the things that we want after something bad happens. We have to understand that good things are not always what we want. Let’s say that you have a friend and you two have a fight and stop talking to each other. Even though +you lost a friend, maybe that person helped you in other ways that make you a better person. Maybe you met a special someone, helped you get a job, or even get through some difficult times. The point is, we have to look a little more closely to see what we gained. We might not want to see it, but it’s there, probably because we are hurt and we can’t see it. When we are hurt, we also see the other bad things that happen, that’s another reason why we think that nothing good happens. Recently I lost a very special person to me. It hurt so much that I almost missed what good came for me. Now I got the affection of a sweet and wonderful little girl. Well she is not little but she’s still adorable. She is the daughter of the person that I lost. I love that kid and I will be there for her always. I was just so caught up on other things, stupid things, that I almost missed how special she is. Actually, I think I found two special people, but the other one I will get to know later on. When something bad happens to you, you might hurt, and that blinds you. You just need to focus a little harder and you will find something good.
There is always good in your life, it just takes a little extra to see it.