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A Beautiful Bloodstained World
The personal entries of my peace of mind, or corruption of the soul. Either way you'd either think, or not care at all. But please do comment, i would like to know what your own thoughts on my entry is >.<
Outing with a Demonic Angel
It has offically been one month since i started dating Jake, well techically it was on Friday, but you get the point. Today we hung out at the mall and it was amazingly great, I can't even begin to explain how much fun I had, even though we only did simple things. Even though we only went to the arcade, hung around in the bookstore, gawked at stuff at Hottopic, and ate the fat we were working off with fast food, I still had a lot of fun doing it, especially with him. Mom even allowed me to stay an extra hour in the mall, which was unusually nice of her, but i'm not complaining! Even though my other friends were at the mall as well, we just wanted some alone time together, being we usually don't have it at school. So sorry about not seeing you AvengedPhysopath! I know it's only been a month but my thoughts continously encircle Jake, and a grin is usually upon my face when doing so. It is a proven fact that being in love is the same exact feeling as being high, and people say i look high quite often. But, it's too soon to say i'm in love, and i don't feel in love either, but i do love Jake. Does that make sense? So i have a few questions for you, fellow pupil that is reading it.
1) When do you think is an appropraite time to say your in love with someone?
2) Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
3) What is the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?
Please comment and answer these questions the best way you can pupil! Or i shall send a bat plague upon your household and they will forever haunt you, squeaking in your ear and what not! 3nodding


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  • User Comments: [8]
    Well... Ms. L'Arc... you probably don't want my love advice, being the one to bolt at the slightest whiff of love in the air

    -chibi bats appear in the room-

    er... I mean... it is human nature to be happy... so even if your love at first sight is not your "perfect person," you both adapt yourself to be the "perfect person" of the other person? (hey... that's how my parents have lived under the same roof for fourteen years)

    -chibi bats inch closer to my face-

    sweatdrop um... I mean... the difference between falling in love and loving is that one is out of ones control and the other is an activity that one conciously engages in?

    -chibi bats: krick...krack (knuckles)-

    C-c-con- congratulations o-on your one month anniversary?

    -chibi bats swarm-

    Aggggghhhhhh!!!!!! Not the computer!!!!!Any thing but the computer!!!!!!

    NUUUUU!!!!!

    comment Runeoath · Community Member · Sat Mar 10, 2007 @ 10:50pm
    lol. It's impossible to look for the "perfect lover" because that person does not exist. If you run your life looking for that person your going to end up alone. Besides the point, when you do like someone, or love someone for that matter, you either find them perfect because you are attracted so grately to them, or you learn to live with it because the effort is worth it. Lol, a friend also told me that if you are with a person, she said, "You better not find anything wrong with them before you marry, because after you two do you will see EVERY fault with them."

    comment L'Arc En Ciel · Community Member · Sat Mar 10, 2007 @ 10:59pm
    hehe... I suppose that's true xd sweatdrop

    *skips off to my truckle bed* <-From Romeo and Juliet

    xd

    comment Runeoath · Community Member · Sat Mar 10, 2007 @ 11:14pm
    Congrats on your one month anniversary!
    I'm so proud of you guys!
    *random peanut gallery clapping and cheering*
    And as for the questions...
    You're killing me with the love here... xp
    But, why shouldn't I answer them, except for three.
    I told you what I thought of that one already.
    1) Well.. I believe when you feel its right to say it.
    And 2) That depends on the person. Some people say it, because its the person they like/are dating at the moment, but then it turns out to really not be true. I also believe that it takes a while to develope feelings towards a person.
    But again, I congradulate you!
    *throw confettii everywhere**noise makers going off*
    Woo woo!!!!!


    comment Hiroara · Community Member · Sat Mar 10, 2007 @ 11:21pm
    lol i know that quote! We're currently reading that play in my English class! And merci Hiroara, your opinion is much appreciated lol.

    comment L'Arc En Ciel · Community Member · Sat Mar 10, 2007 @ 11:28pm
    Hmmm.... Glad you had a great time, you two look good together man
    1) an appropriate time to say you love someone is any time, there is no way to say you don't lvoe someone if you relaly know them and feel for them. There is no way around saying that you love someone, so there is always a time to say you love that person.
    2) It depends, really if it happened instantly then yeah, but it the love is gradual, and has time to grow, then that's another thing. It all jsut depends, not much to say this is for sure, and that is for sure

    3) The difference between loving someone is that it can be a fmaily love, a friendly love, it's a general term. While being in love with someone is the love for your signifigant other, it is the term for the person you want to be with, that's the difference. Loving someone is like family, friends, pets, and even random hobos off the street, but being in love is the thing that seals the fate of wheather you dream of being with that person, or being close to that person, even for a certain amount of time, it can be forever or a few months, but you're still in love.

    comment coldeyedflames · Community Member · Sun Mar 11, 2007 @ 01:15am
    Alright, here we go. First of all...

    1. Whenever you feel ready. If you honestly love someone, just tell them when you want to, and when the time feels right. Sure, they might be a little freaked out or something at first, but heck, I would be too if all of a sudden my bf came up to me one day and was like 'I love you'. Just don't be like on a first date and randomly confess your undying love to them. sweatdrop That might be a little shocking... mrgreen

    2. No, I honestly don't. You can't be walking in the mall, and look over at a guy and automatically be like 'I love you, let's get hitched.' Yes, you can be attracted to another person, and maybe even develop a crush just by seeing a person for the first time, but how can you possibly fall in love with a person before you know his/her personality, likes/dislikes, habits, or anything about them. Sure, you can fall in love with their /looks/, or the thought of actually /being/ with them, but I don't think you can fall in love with someone before you know them. Unless, of course, it's like a parents/kids thing, when people say you fall in love with your baby as soon as it's born, but that's a different story...

    3. Ok, this is a tricky one. If you love someone, you just...I don't know how to explain it. If you love someone, you would do anything for them, and you'll always be willing to be with them and just help them out whenever they need. It's like a family or friends type of love. Being in love is like something that has to grow. It can easily be broken or healed again, but all you know is that you love the person you're with, and you want to work to keep your love going, as well as the other person's love, so it can grow into more of a family love thing.

    I don't know if any of this made sense, but I hope it helped!

    comment sodaxpopxkat7714 · Community Member · Sun Mar 11, 2007 @ 08:20pm
    Well,I Shall Qoute Thy Rome And Thy Juliet.
    "Do You Bite Your Thumb At Me sir?Yes i bite my tumb at you sir!!!"wait tthat g=has nothing to do with this post!!!
    OH WELLL!!!!
    First o fall, Yes i Do belive in love at first sight but,most of the time its just pure puppy love sad
    And Beening in love and loving someone is two different things like i LOVe angel but i am not IN Love With Him.Understand?And ITs apporiate to say you love them is when your in the moment and when your all gush and all that jazz. smile But of course i shall be there to ruin it!!!
    lmao! I am the only one that can do it with out getting yelled at because i is special!!!!!!!!!
    *hisses*
    WOOO!!!
    Anyways,Thats pretty much it.

    comment AvengedPhysopath · Community Member · Mon Mar 19, 2007 @ 05:15am
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