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I feel sorry for you. sad But, if he doesn't really love you enough to stop going behind your back, he doesn't deserve you. ^^

I have those thoughts going through my head about my boyfriend too. But, at least you have a valid reason. I'm just paranoid and don't thik I'm good enough for him, so I always ask myself that stuff. sweatdrop

Don't think about it too much. What happens, happens, and it all happens for a reason.

-blinks and smiles,- Your a very nice, kind caring person.And you have a big point, what happens happens for a reason....I'm not so sure about the other.-laughs-

Self dout its always a nightmare. I know I'm passing through the exact same thing right now (bad thing for me is that my guy's all the way in england while I'm stuck here in Venezuela xp , so the self dout is ever greater! At least you can see him and know what hes up to)

Dont let it eat you up though. Because as soon as you do the first and most critical thing that happens is that you damage yourself inside, your self esteem while really its not your fault. Second, I've noticed that, just with my guy, if i go on and ask him over and over again whats up, why he acts in a sertain way etc he gets really pissed hahah xd And hes usually a very very good and pacient listner. I cant determine how your guy will react, but most men tend to not like being watched over too much. Give him a little space. Better yet, YOU get away from him., Let him look for you, long to be with you. MAKE HIM SUFFER! WE WOMAN HAVE THE POWER! haha as soon as you show him he really needs you all that love you think you might not be resieving will bounce right to you.

Alright, got over excited but thats how i see it. You dont have to take this advise, im sure its not exactly how I image it. But just incase it is, keep it in mind. 3nodding Good luck! biggrin heart heart

But I have your problem as well...John lives in Kent,England! And I'm alllllllllllllll the way over here in America.Wow you know youur right! And, woman do rule all other, But I think, or so John says, our men....are british xd they are, so he says, "born" to hate others and all.I didn't understand it either, I asked myself "If you hate everyone, why do you love me?" thats somthin gI will never ask him, xd He would jsut get into a mad rage and not talk to me. cry -le sigh- But you both have reaaally good points, I'm just going to let him worry about me for a change, I'm going out with some friends later on, and we are taking their boyfriend and out really gay friend. xd I wonder if he would get worried or not. xp

heh, sounds like you've got buterflies for this boy. My advice is tell him. It usually all fits into place in movies and books sweatdrop blaugh