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Is It Wrong To Like Other Girls? I've been thinking to myself about a lot of things lately.... I've had two boyfriends in like a month. So much heart ache and drama... Then, I...I joined up for the Gay-Straight Alliance Club (yesterday). No, I haven't been to one of their meetings YET, but I... I started thinking to myself... When I was seven I made out with a girl...like ALL the time. Of course, I thought I was nothing but a freak and have shunned that out of my life... But...I DO like girls. I DO... And, when I told my Father I joined the GSA, his face got pale. I quickly covered it up by saying I was joking. He then said "Good because I wouldn't have let you joined ever if you WERE Gay..." That hurt, you know? And what hurts more is that he gets all worked up everytime I hint Gay or Lesiban stuff. I mean, c'mon! I don't know what to do anymore... I'm so confused... But, now I know something for SURE: I like girls. I like guys (not really...) a little bit. I'm afraid to tell Daddy dearest. Life sucks. sad

Posted by: Wired Coffee Fri Sep 29, 2006 @ 09:55pm

I'M A MULE

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Sally Up The Alley
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Commented on: Sat Sep 30, 2006 @ 04:51pm


	I'm so sorry... My mom is a lesbian, and she never told her parents. She ended up marrying my dad. They got divorced, and now she's with another woman. You can't change who you are... (not implying that you didn't know that) He'll have to come to terms with it eventually, unless you keep it a secret until he dies... I wish you the best of luck with this... HUG

Commented on: Sat Sep 30, 2006 @ 05:04pm


	Nothing wrong with liking the same sex. You're 14, right? So you only have to wait 4 years then you can move out and be yourself with out your dad having any say over your sexuality. He actually doesn't right now, but once you move out you won't have to deal with it as much. I know 4 years may seem like a long time, but think about how long you're going to live. You'll probably live until you're into your 80's. So it's really nothing. I'm sure he'll come to terms with it eventually no matter how you go about it. Just be yourself and stand proud.

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shoobie13
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Commented on: Mon Oct 23, 2006 @ 05:35pm


	I will love you as a friend no matter what you chose.

Commented on: Mon Mar 12, 2007 @ 04:00pm


	It is certainly not wrong to love someone who's of the same gender! You are a very brave person for posting this; too bad about your father's reaction sad I used several times to hint it to my parents and they were also negative about it at first. Now on the other hand they seem to be more open about it, since they've met my homosexual best friend and saw what a great person he was. I hope it will work out for you; and if it gets really bad, then just PM me. I'm not such a great person at givin' advice, but I'm a good listener at least. Sorry that I can't come up with something better. sad

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