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Cynical and sin-stained
Moony venting on Nakie Day
Don't look if you have problems with me disagreeing with it.
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I initially posted it in a thread in the Q&F, which some of you may have seen. First, someone said how most old rich users are elitists, someone accused him of stereotyping, and then this lovely little lady posted the following.

Maiyra
And as for you guys telling him he stereotyped. Nay, not really. The man said "many" he didn't say all. And he's right you know; he's very much so right. "many" not all, but "many" of the older users or users with hellacious gold out of the ying yang act stuck up, and are in every sense of the word, elitist pricks


Honestly, I've had it up to my eyeballs with this type of attitude. There are PLENTY of us who are old and "rich" or whatever who are being seriously hurt by this. I can't help but take it personally. I try my best to be nice, but apparently most of Gaia can't look past my "good" items. Isn't this just as bad as misjudging people for their peasant pants?

So I couldn't take it. I replied...

Moonblossom
And half the people participating in this silly ruse are hypocritical sycophants who are only doing it to appear "better" than those of us who have no qualms about admitting that we love our items.

If Gaia was only about the talking, we wouldn't HAVE avatars. It's part of the fun, and this whole "it's not about the gold and items" sentiment is entirely misguided. If it wasn't, there wouldn't be gold and items.

Yes, I have over 300 items. Yes, I have over 550 000 gold. I still help anyone who needs it here in the Q&F, regardless of their flame pants or halo, I still reply to every inane random PM I get (assuming it's not spam or vulgarity), and I still judge everyone I come across on post content, not on items. I'm sick and bloody tired of this "rich old gaian = crabby old elitist" nonsense. It's really starting to hurt my feelings. Some of us try and try and try to be nice, and all we get in return is crap. ;_;


I know some people who might read this are participating, and that's fine. This journal is only open to my friends, and I have enough faith in anyone on that list to know that you're doing it for good reasons, not bad ones. So this rant was in no means directed at any of you.


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  • User Comments: [7]
    Yeah. I think there is a certain contingent with the 'nakie day' crowd who wants to prove they're better than anyone else because they don't care about the items. I don't think that's the intent behind it from those starting it... but I do think some have that kind of attitude about it...

    IE: If you don't participate, you're a greedy rich elitest. Even if I only had one outfit to my name... I still wouldn't participate. I seriously doubt that there's anything aside from a glitch in which I had no choice that could get me to parade around in my underwear. Swimsuits... okay.. peasant clothes... no problem... but I'm not parading around in my underwear, I don't care how good the cause is.

    *sighs* Stereotyping is just bad. Unfortunately, I don't think the masses will ever learn to stop grouping people into categories and start taking each individual on their own merits. neutral *hugs MB* User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.


    comment Kava · Community Member · Mon Jan 10, 2005 @ 11:05pm
    *hugs Kava* Thanks hun.

    I agree, it started out with very noble intentions. I'd actually considered participating it when I first heard about it. Now it's just gotten so out of hand and so tainted with this "Holier than Thou" attitude, it just revolts me.

    And just watch.. After it, random people will be bitching in the Q&F about a lack of Admin involvement and no free items. Entirely the antithesis of it's original intent, but I'm willing to lay wagers that it WILL happen.

    comment Moonblossom · Community Member · Mon Jan 10, 2005 @ 11:13pm
    I'll admit, I initially wanted to participate in Nakie Day, since the theme seemed very noble. However, as the days progressed, and the recruiting increased, it seemed that many people just wanted to participate in order to poke fun at those "rich snotty people." The last thing I wanted to do was to do something like that, so I backed out.

    It's really unfortunate that what started as a really cool idea turned into something too ugly for words. whee

    comment 454Fifteen · Community Member · Tue Jan 11, 2005 @ 05:14pm
    I think you forget that most people who are "known to the public" for their richness usually announced that to the crowd themselfs. Sure, a lot of people just have old items, but never started to pimp around with it. These kiddos (you and me included ninja ) Wont be noticed by the anti-elitist mob.

    hell! Im a multimilionaire in gold and items, but the only "elitist" item I have on me is my deviltail.

    comment Aldo · Community Member · Tue Jan 11, 2005 @ 05:48pm
    *sigh* people who judge on sight are the kind of people I think we could do better with less of them around. I'll give an example of how things should be done. I saw and met you moony and I didn't think anything of you until you posted and "said" some things, yeah I thought you had a lot of items and that's cool but not like I went "Oh she has a devil, omfg stuck up snob". And it turns out..you're not one xp You're actually one of the nicest Gaians I've met. These others who claim the older gaians with minis, d-tails, and Halos are stuck up are wrong. Im going to take a wager and say they'd be 4 times as stuck up and obnoxious than any of the older vet gaians. 3nodding

    comment Lord Yawgmoth · Community Member · Thu Jan 13, 2005 @ 05:53pm
    Most people think the higher, older, and richer Gaians are stuck up, I believe they are wrong. What happens if the whiner gets the money and items? They'd gloat like no tommorow. See, I'm humble when it comes to items. Like I would really love to have NM minis and ports, but I don't need them like some of those hipocrites say they do...

    comment Aeon Lorus · Community Member · Fri Feb 11, 2005 @ 04:10am
    Well, truly, tell me:

    What is the definition of a nice Gaian?

    The person who talks to you for hours over a pm just to make sure you are okay even though they just met you on gaia today and otherwise would have never known you existed?

    -Or-

    Is it the person who donates a OMG to you just because you begged them for the past ten pages, despite your clear illiteracy throughout all of them.

    I find a lot of the gaians that say "old rich gaians = rude 'p***k' that still scramble for every last bit of gold" go off of the second one. They think that it is the duty of people with more gold, to spread the weath and to spread it as thick as colestoral from 10 inches of butter on toast domokun . Mmmmm Toast! (<--- beside the point). I find the truly nice people are the first people, or another I didn't list. There is the saying:
    Saying
    Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, but teach him how to fish and you will feed him for a lifetime.


    I don't know if you remember my friend who is showing me the ropes on exchange whoring, but instead of just loaning me 400k and going from there, he is teaching me to earn good hefty profits so I can whenever I need to, that is another kind of nice person, especially when the combine with choice A.



    I double Dark Lords wager, I know many a people that would flaunt every last peice of gold at every chance they could get if they had it.

    comment Malicious Dream · Community Member · Thu Jul 14, 2005 @ 02:49am
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