So my friend announced that she was engaged last night to her boyfriend after only a few months of going out. And I'm not sure exactly why, but I'm sad about it. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy for her, but at the same time I'm sad. Maybe it's because that whenever it's come to a friend and her boyfriend (or my next door cousin and hers) that I've either been ignored or a third wheel that is, for the most part, ignored when we're all together. Ever feel like that? Maybe another reason it bugs me is that she's only 20 and her boyfriend is anywhere from 25-27. I'm not sure, I'm no psychologist.
I hope I can get over it soon 'cuz I don't want her to be upset that I'm sad about it.
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Like her being married would mean less time being able to hang out with you or something
And if that isn't the case ignore me <3
I hate being the third wheel of anything!
I had a friend who was scared to call her own boyfriend!
So I always had to three way him until I got so sick of it one day I called the boy friend on my own and explained to him why I was always on the phone with them...
But don't worry it's part of life honey, if they're not meant to be they'll call of the wedding before it happens... or like most people in America now-a-days, they'll be married for alittle while and then get a dicorce (I can't spell sorry) :.