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It bothers me when people have a linear mind set.
Not that it is their fault. It just gets on my nerves.

Its mostly when they assume things in a hasty manner.
Again, nothing wrong with that, but they miss a piece.
They miss the other person's perspective on it.

Now with that being said, I have no right to say anything.
I do the same, just a on a smaller level.
I too assume if someone is upset just because they haven't talked much.
I too assume if someone is bored because they are always on their phones.

But I forget that, in some way, they see things differently than I do.
What Im saying is: When you say something like "Are you ok?, you seem upset"
Think about it at first.

Has this person always been quiet?
Do they change their look on a regular basis?
How often do they check their phone without you around them?

Just because you haven't seen it happen, doesn't mean it isn't normal.
They are perfectly fine, and if something were wrong, don't you think they'd tell you?
If you knew them well enough, shouldn't you recognize their habits?
Their behavior?

If you truly loved them- if you were their friend, you would know when to ask, right?

I guess it must slip your mind sometimes.
It just bothers me when you forget how I am, who Ive been, and what I do.