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OKAY TECHNICALLY HE IS NOT MY BF. But recently we broke up and a lot of ppl, including gossip spread around that he still lykes me and stuff lyke dat. in fact he told me so himself and begged me to get back with him. but i don't lyke him and he is way too physical when it comes to relationships anyways.... i started talking to him about moving on and i chatted with him friendlyly many times, to show him that i didn't want any of that ' akward exes' behaviour. however he keeps misleading himself into thinking that we both are in a relationship when i have specifically told him i don't lyke him back. but he is so serious that one day if i don't talk to him for the sake of it, his frnds come to me and tell me that he is upset that i'm angry at him and stuff, to which i reply, "we're not going out! so why is it a problem if i don't talk to him one day??" i am seriously confused with his behaviour! and i think he is going around saying how much we love each other, becaud=se people constantly come to me and ask me if we are together again! ON TOP OF THAT as if that isn't enough of a problem, my best friend has a major crush on him! she claims she doesn't lyke him anymore, but i can see it in her, the longing whenever she goes to flirt with him!! also she told me too, that she is okay with him as a frnd but if he lykes her, she will be more than glad to be his girl-frnd!! i have tried to patch them both up together, but he keeps telling me that he loves me and not her!! advice plz?? how can i get him to move on to my best frnd! however they are not compatible and privately i DON'T want my bff to date him, bcoz shouldn't there be a girl-code or something lyke that saying tyhat you can't date your best frnds ex?? apparently not to her! i just want him to move on, preferably not to her!!