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Koke is slowly going crazy 1-2-3-4-5-6 SNAP So seriously, I think I probably have the worst judge of character. One by one all my IRL friends betray me and lie about this to my face. Other people say "Oh, how could you not notice how they treat you?" I don't know why I put up with it for so long. Today I snapped at Desi and Feena. Feena just sat there and ignored me. She is only nice when it's convenient for her schedule. I all out calmly talked to Desi, when I'm upset if I don't hit something immediately, I cry. They all have this thing to jump to her attention when something is wrong. And when I try to calmly speak to her everyone else jumps to defend her. My best friend, he stood there and said nothing. I'm not mad at him, but I can't comprehend on why he didn't say anything as per he really doesn't like these girls. I'm sitting here, still in tears and I have to deal with it tomorrow as well. I have to be nice to Feena, her dad is my teacher. stare I'm going to leave before I ******** go psycho.

Posted by: Kawaii Kokezaru Thu Mar 02, 2006 @ 05:49pm

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Commented on: Thu Mar 02, 2006 @ 06:04pm


	Bummer Koke. ._.;; Good luck dealing with it.

Commented on: Thu Mar 02, 2006 @ 07:51pm


	... sweatdrop That really isn't that informative; I have trouble understanding exactly what happened. I myself know that, as a guy, I try not to get into arguments between girls--it seems like it's just asking for trouble. Another thing is that (I assume that Desi and your best friend are also friends) it's very difficult to try and choose sides when two friends are arguing, so sometimes the only thing a good friend can do is sit back and let the two people settle it between themselves. Koke, I'd like to offer some advice--try not to get too angry at these people/your friends. If you become angry and unreasonable, you're just going to wind up pushing the people you care about further away from you. Don't try to judge harshly or immedatily, but rather ask about the problem in a friendly manner. Calmly let the person you're talking to try and explain things from their point of view, and try to listen rather than just screaming in frustration. It's hard to do, but it's the best course of action I can think of. If you listen and observe, you're sure to find out the truth... -- talk2hand And I'm not blaming you for what's happened to you in RL. neutral It's just that I can only communicate with you, and not your friends, sweatdrop so I'm really limited on who I can give advice to in this situation, you know? neutral Well, best of luck fixing this mess. 3nodding

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Commented on: Thu Mar 02, 2006 @ 11:22pm


	hugs Poor Koke. It's never a good time when your friends, well you though they were your friends, hurt you. Hope tomorrow and they day there after are better for you chica. Try not to let it get you to bad crying .

Commented on: Thu Mar 02, 2006 @ 11:26pm


	No my best friend, he only puts up with these girls because they were my friends. I have put up with them takling to me like I'm lower than them. I tried speaking to them, they don't ******** listen. Desi is not much for explaining things from her point of view. You look at her in what she thinks is the wrong way and everyone hounds you. Funny thing is I feel bad because she treats herself so lowly that people feel the need to protect her. I used to do it, and feel like an idiot for it.

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