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I was going to randomly choose an avatar with cool clothes so I could create a new outfit for my wish list when I found a Thread on Homosexuality: At Birth or Choice.
Intreged, I posted my opinion that I believed it is by both unconsious Choice and pure choice that people become Gay or Lesbian. After I posted I decided not to remain ingnorant to only my opinion and watch others. No one responded to my opinion but I found another very odd one. They where saying that if a Heterosexual person fails in a Gay relationship then it proved that by nature they were straight. It was the first half that confused me so I responded:
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I think that some homosexual people are afraid to say that it is a choice.

The reason is if they were wrong about it they would be worried about which way is right for them.

I do not think that if you fail in a Gay or Lesbian relationship it means you are straight.

I mean if a man and a woman got divorced it does not exactly mean they were ment to be gay in the first place, visa-versa.

Some people just do not know how to hold on to or mend a relationship.

Lables such as Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual blind us from the true reason of how we create relationships.

Nevermind the Lables. Think of them as simply "Relationships."

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It is so hard to sift through everyones arguments when they use Lables. Some Homosexuals say it is by birth because of this chemical or hormonal misbalacement in the mothers womb. I think some of them are mixing up the Homosexual explenation with the "Shemale" accurance.

Please tell me if you agree. Please ask questions if you became confused in my belief.