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well recently i had this majorly weard guy ask me out. well in the first few hours i thought he was pritty nice and i agreed to go out on the first date. but of cource once he had driven me home from our meeting place that night he only started to get weareder insted of cooler. firt not only and hour after droping me off he IMs me and tells me he has found this perfect song that discribes him and me. *OK* i thought that was a little weard since there was no u and me yet i only agreed to go out on a date with u not be your life partner. then not only five hours after we meet he gives me a pet name. well i would have none of that it was just weard. then he gose on and on all night eather calling me or texting me or IMing me. telling me his whole life story. He even gose into about his last relationship. how he was with this girl for two years and then when he gose of to the army he asked her to marry him and she refused and broke up with him. *How old r u again* i thought as he went on. a guy who thinks about jumping right into a marrage after high school was not flatering in my eyes. I gues am just too independent. anyways soon after about knowing him for 10 hours he finaly lets me get some sleep. the next day thought i was at work at one of my meny part time jobs wile at college. and he shows up. I for one at this job was a grocery clerk and i was handaling some costomers orders. when he comes up behind me and tells me to take a break to come ouside. well sorry buddy if i dont get to decide my break. also i had a line of waiting costomers that were not to happy about the interuption. so i finaly shew him away and tell him to give me a half hour until my brake. well dering my brake he gives me at least 50 dollors or more of bath and body works as well as some books i like from borders. so at least he scored some points in listening to me when he let me talk but god i only known him for 24 hours and he shows up and showers me with gifts it was just a little weard almost desperet. latter i told him not to bother me at work and he just starts to whine about it. god what a turn of! then when we were talking on the phone that afternoon he has me talk to his mother so she can explane why i cant come over for dinner some night cause his mother refuses to cook for any more of his girlfriends since they just end up breaking his heart in the end. wow now that realy gave me home. so latter the next day i was fed up with all this crap. so i called him and said that i just wasnt into dating right now. and gose into this whole speach how he is tremedusly hert and how it makes him feel like a monster and how he will never meet mrs perfect. god so he trys to send u on a gilt trip. REALY DESPERIT! and it was disterbing. so you wemon out there or even u men what do u hate to happen in the first 48 hours?