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<<; Giving this a suubjeeccttttttttt...
Wow.. I'm so tired now, and I only kinda sorta half know why.. It isn't the physical type of 'tired' though... it's more.. well... I don't know. Kinda like.. tired of putting up with stuff..

I just finished reading one of my friends' journal entries.. ( I won't say who, mostly because I don't really feel like it.. ) and it made me think. Why is everyone these days so worried about whether they're cool or not? I mean, hey. I do that sometimes too. Not as often as some people, but then I spend most of each day down in my dumb basement. =b

But, well.. Like most of the guys I know. So many of them refuse to show anything but goofing off and stuff.. some of them are never serious, and most of them really have this thing against showing weaknesses or whatever to everyone else.. Even when a lot of girls /like/ the sensitive type. ><;

And some of my other friends.. well.. try to outdo me in things. I mean, I like something, they like it because I do, not because they would like it if I WEREN'T into it. It's like, say, I look forward to a CD that's coming out, and wait for like a half of a year for it to come out.. but then just before it does, I tell my friend, and that friend goes out and buys the CD just because I'm into it, and because that person won't just get into something /they/ like, instead of freaking copying me...

I mean, when I really love something ( Like Kingdom Hearts, etc.. and when I like something like Kingdom Hearts, I go /all out/. ), I obsess over it.. and when I do that, I like to show other people how much I love it.. I don't look at Kingdom Hearts as just another cool Videogame.. I look at it as a beautiful story, full of awesome characters, great themes, and born from one of those rare ingenius ideas that people don't often get, that everyone thinks will go over badly, but it ends up being one of the best things of our time.. that happened with Star Wars too. ( Well.. the older trilogy, anyway. I don't as much care for 1-3 myself.. )

But when I try to show people how much I love something, the best way I can do that is to be 'the best fan of it that I can be'. And then sometimes I tell someone, and then that someone comes and gets more of the mangas, more of the anime, more of whatever, and seems like a better 'fan'.. But then the person doesn't care about whatever it is on as deep of a level as I do... They just treat it as something to enjoy for awhile and then forget about until they feel like enjoying it again.

I could never stand shallow people.. and that may sound like something akin to racist, but.. well.. I'm not saying I'm awesome, but I'm pretty deep.. and I like deep things. And people. Hence my love for anime, and the fact that most of my friends are anime fans.

But.. when I get shown up like that, it makes it feel like, 'wow, how lame am I, that I love something so much and yet someone who doesn't really care is doing a better job of it..?' I have to hit myself in the face sometimes to get myself to stop thinking about it.. Unfortunately, that's one of my flaws. I always want to be the biggest fan of something.. I used to deal with it worse, though, when that happened when I was younger.. man, I feel sorry for what few friend I had back then.. ><;

... Wow. That's a heck of a rant... I'm probably going to regret posting it here too.. I'll be surprised if I don't get flamed for it by total strangers. xP It's not like I can tell anybody any of this though.. for multiple reasons, anyway. Just my mom.. and I think she's getting tired of listening to me. >_O; Typical, ne?

Anyway, I'm gonna go let my mom listen to the song I just found.. one I love singing to, that's kinda lame... but oh well. What does it matter? xb

( As a reward - you get to laugh at me.. d'oh - for getting this far.. [ if anyone did.. sweatdrop ] I'll disclose the song. =b "A Dream is a Wish your Heart makes".. Yeah, lame, eh? Well, I like it. And I like singing with it.. so whatever. )

But yeah.. that's all for now. ( I know, I know. Whew. XP Why'd you read this far? Wierd person, you are. )






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Heikurashi
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commentCommented on: Thu Oct 27, 2005 @ 03:50am
Ah.. First off. You're not lame. And I'm sorry. I don't mean to show you up or anything like that. I don't mean to try to be a better fan than you. Gomen. I'm terrible at that. But I understand what you mean and how you feel. I could tell that this is what was going on when I talked to you earlier. I'm sorry. I didn't know you only had 2 of them. I just buy my manga in bulk so I don't only have one and get bored after an hour. oo... *huggles* gomen..


commentCommented on: Fri Nov 04, 2005 @ 05:10am
One word....damn. x.x;; sweatdrop Well I'd say that you're post proves that you are a deep thinker and also someone who means what they are saying. ^^; Hopefully I'm not one of the always goofing off non-serious guys...I know I goof off quite a bit but I try to be serious too.

I know exactly what you mean though...about getting the feeling that everyone seems to copy things you like or try to be better than you at things that you like. There are quite a few people(that we both know) who are currently considered "under my skin" for similar reasons. -_-;;

If it's any consolation, I think of you as one of the most pulled to together and mature person/friend that I know. ^^ I don't think you are lame or wierd or obbsessed(even though you are >_@ x3).

Well let's see...I don't try to compete with you, and personally I don't think I could. =P Just too lazy. ^^ But if you feel that I am than just let me know, I don't mind at all. As for sesitivity, no one talks to me about anything to where I need to show any...not trying to hide it. =|

Oi...here I go defending myself for no reason. x.x Anywho, sorry if I've offened you in anyway. ^^ Also, if you ever just want to unload on someone I'm always open to listen to issueses comments and or opinions. *pats* <3



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Espyr
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commentCommented on: Tue Nov 29, 2005 @ 07:37pm
xD Ahaha.. I've always been like that. And well.. I didn't write it with you in mind, although you have done it sometimes.. xD ( And yes, you are serious. Quite.. a lot of the time.. <<; -koff.- A LOT. Ahaha. )

oO; Wow. You do? -blink.- I'd be curious to know who could possibly get "under your skin".. xD -has no clue.-

xD Well. If you think I'm mature, either I'm blind, or you are, or we both are.. or maybe you're right. Who knows. But I certainly don't think I'm mature. Although.. you are. xD More so than most people.. like my sister.. <<; And.. everyone else I know... ( Yes, I am lame and wierd and obsessed. Remember? XD -loves it that way.- )

Nah.. I wasn't really talking about you at that point anyway. xD Mostly some other people. <_<; And if you'd get off your lazy arse you'd probably be waay ahead of me in.. well.. whatever it is we're talking about. @.o;

Noone talks to you about anything like that? oO; Um...... <<; Wierd......

XD Don't worry. You haven't offended me. And.. like.. you're probably one of the few. ( 'GRATS, LOLZ. -gives you a medal that reads 'one of the few lolz!'.- xD ) And hm. Open to listen or unload on? Ahaha. I'll try to remember that. <<;

And my mom's really annoyed at me right now so I gotta go bye. xDDD


commentCommented on: Sat Dec 31, 2005 @ 06:29pm
Really?



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Ajuran
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commentCommented on: Sat Dec 31, 2005 @ 06:33pm
If i'm one of those people sorry, sweatdrop i'll try to stop, (except for drawing!! It's been my hobby WAY before I knew you.)and if I don't hit me hard, I mean so hard the I fall on the ground type hard. I try to be serious but, I have alot of time on my hands(A farm isn't what they say it is) so I try to joke since I only have my computer to talk to people.


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