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I feel wierd
My friend is angry at me. I guess I acted a little rude to him while my other friend was over, but that still doesn't fully explain it.

You see, I was trying to steer the conversation away from religion (my other friend was a christan and we are atheists) and School (the friend that's angry at me goes to a different school and makes a bigger deal out of it than he needs to, but I don't blame him becase so few people go to that school that it must make him feel like everyone's against him.), and I guess I did so a little rudely. I can't exactely remember insulting him in anyway (except that I called him emo... I shouldn't have done that). I have a bad track record when it comes to having more than one friend over at once, expecially with him. gonk

Also I believe that when I was directing the conversation away from the topics mentioned before, I steered the conversation to him, which was a very bad move. *sigh* why must humans be such social creatures? xp

So now he's asking himself why we're even still friends since we don't even do all that much with eachother anymore, which isn't really true, we go to eachother's houses all the time, but I guess he's talking about doing other things, like going out of the house. We've been friends now for like 11 years, and I really don't want this friendship to go down the drain. gonk

I'm attemting to think of other things to do, but I just can't really. sad






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Capatain Aki
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commentCommented on: Sun Oct 02, 2005 @ 02:02am
You have to talk to him. Sit with him, no one else around, no other friends, No one, that could ruin it, and just tell him how you feel. Then let him tell you how he feels, DO NOT interrupt, except to show you've been listening in such ways as saying "You must feel really ___ about _____" and such, that helps, ALOT, I'm telling you.
IF he talks about his own problems you NEVER steer it on to similar problems or what you find /worse/ than his. That WILL not help.


commentCommented on: Sun Oct 02, 2005 @ 05:02am
Good luck with that. I suck at the whole friends/socializing thing too. I never know what to do or say, and make myself out to be either an idiot or an a** in the process. I'm sure he'll come around, a friendship that long isn't worth throwing away over some small potatoes like that. Just make sure he knows you are sorry for making him feel hurt or left out, and like, try to explain it from your point of view.

Then get him drunk. xD



imfreezingandhungry
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