I am so confused right now. It's a horribly cliche, cheesy confusion, which only makes it worse.
Typically, I am a very logical person. I think things through more than follow my feelings. I always analyze every situation and try to work it to my advantage. I don't want to sound like a cold, uncaring person. I truly care about my friends, but I always look before I leap, as the expression goes.
Right now, however, I am certainly more emotional than usual.
In preschool, I met this boy. Throughout all of elementary school, we 'dated.' Then, after 6th grade, I moved away. We've still kept in touch, but the romantic phase of our relationship ended at the start of 4th grade when I started 'dating' another boy.
Now, however, he has confessed that his feelings haven't changed.
What the heck am I supposed to do with that?! I mean, this guy that I've known my whole life says that he loves me. He actually said it! It's too much like something out of a movie. Guy know girl all of his life, harbouring a strong love. Then, after not seeing her for years, he re-connects with her and finally admits his true feeling. Unfortunately, he is in the army, and is shipped out before she can respond.
I mean, isn't that nauseating?
But, in a way, that makes it all the more amazing. All of those times I watched a romantic movie and thought, "now why can't that happen to me?" Well, now it has, and I don't know what to think.
Last night, he sent me a text.
"Hey, there. I'm going into the fight tomorrow, and I'll admit I'm scared.
I just want you to know that not a day goes by when I don't think about you. I miss you"
So what do I do?
Typically, I am a very logical person. I think things through more than follow my feelings. I always analyze every situation and try to work it to my advantage. I don't want to sound like a cold, uncaring person. I truly care about my friends, but I always look before I leap, as the expression goes.
Right now, however, I am certainly more emotional than usual.
In preschool, I met this boy. Throughout all of elementary school, we 'dated.' Then, after 6th grade, I moved away. We've still kept in touch, but the romantic phase of our relationship ended at the start of 4th grade when I started 'dating' another boy.
Now, however, he has confessed that his feelings haven't changed.
What the heck am I supposed to do with that?! I mean, this guy that I've known my whole life says that he loves me. He actually said it! It's too much like something out of a movie. Guy know girl all of his life, harbouring a strong love. Then, after not seeing her for years, he re-connects with her and finally admits his true feeling. Unfortunately, he is in the army, and is shipped out before she can respond.
I mean, isn't that nauseating?
But, in a way, that makes it all the more amazing. All of those times I watched a romantic movie and thought, "now why can't that happen to me?" Well, now it has, and I don't know what to think.
Last night, he sent me a text.
"Hey, there. I'm going into the fight tomorrow, and I'll admit I'm scared.
I just want you to know that not a day goes by when I don't think about you. I miss you"
So what do I do?
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