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Zahir says stuff.
I use big words. I R TEH SMRT.
...and breathe.
Feeling better now. Somewhat. Though the break-taking appears to have stirred up some drama in GD.

Apparently, I shouldn't complain about feeling stressed and underappreciated, or about how certain disruptive sections of the userbase seem intent on ******** up the forum for everyone, because as a mod I'm a volunteer, and thus if I don't like it I should step down because obviously I don't make the grade, and suck as a mod. And complaining about stuff makes me a whiny attention-whoring crybaby.

But it's OK for users to complain about how GD is becoming a festering shitpile full of trolls and spammers because the mods aren't doing their job, or are never online, or are corrupt, or are only in it for the glory and power ( lol ), or because there just aren't enough mods. Which there aren't.

Apparently moderators should suck up everything the users throw at them, every unhelpful action, every critical word, every hostile insult, and never, ever say anything about how hey, that's not cool, because that's being a whiny attention-whoring crybaby.

To hell with that.

Why the perception that volunteering for something means you've signed away all rights to be treated as a human being, or to hope that people might make a little effort to make your job a little easier? "You knew what you were getting into when you signed up" - well, no, actually. On account of not having prior moderating experience. I had some idea of what I was getting into, and for most of the last six months it's been pretty cool. I've ranted a couple of times about people doing stupid stuff (like posting in spam threads rather than reporting them, or encouraging trolls), but that generally falls under the category of "raising public awareness".

How many times over the last six months have you seen me complain? Like seriously complain? Like "I'm sick of this crap, it's really getting to me" complain?

Now take your "whiny attention-whoring crybaby" accusation and cram it up your arse. 3nodding
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Sensedog
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commentCommented on: Sun Jul 03, 2005 @ 10:27am
*Applauds*

ninja

EDIT: Well damn, first comment. surprised


commentCommented on: Sun Jul 03, 2005 @ 04:13pm
People will never be happy with what they have. Seriously. This goes towards everything you'd find in life. Management at work, or a friend or a coworker will always piss someone off. The problem with being a moderator on such a large scale site is that you have become a primary target for almost all criticisms. In feedback, even if most of the Gaian population are completely in love with the new donation items, there is always someone to come and b***h about how the admins suck and are neglecting their duties. Some even think the admins should simply rebuild the site from scratch, simply because they don't like the coloration of a donation item. One small little thing sets off a ton of s**t...and what isn't a big deal...suddenly becomes one. It's human nature I think. Either that or I'm surrounded by complete idiots both IRL and online neutral



Nights Desire
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The Almighty Bobo
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commentCommented on: Sun Jul 03, 2005 @ 06:13pm
People just think it's cool to diss or flame a moderator.

And, because you're the one that all GDers know, you're going to be the target, simply because they want to be radical unconformists. lol

But don't let it get to you. It's not like any of your friends are turning on you, are they? Keep your friends close, and ignore your enemies' annoying taunts. You're above sinking to their level by getting upset. wink


commentCommented on: Sun Jul 03, 2005 @ 11:21pm
I know whatever I say won't mean much, but try not to let them get to you. People forget that not everyone is perfect or they hold them to much higher expectations than they deserve because they want to believe in those expectations. They build up a fantasy and when that fantasy is taken away from them they lash out.

People just need to remember that everyone is human. Presidents have affairs, corporate executives embezzle, and moderators have lives of their own to live.



Amitzah
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Joking Saint
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commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 01:08am
OMG you said "arse".
*reports for SWEARING*
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******** 'em, seriously. People that antagonize for entertainment aren't worth the skin cells you sloughed off typing this excellent essay.


Oh and...


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commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 10:07am
I love you, Saint. xd heart



Zahir
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stone taurus
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commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 11:50am
I agree people are always being little whiny-Whores and make insults towrds the mods. Why is what I ask. You people are the one(the mods) That keep the site clean and not too Inapropriate. So we should be inslulting, if anything we should be clapping.


commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 11:54am
The almight bobo
People just think it's cool to diss or flame a moderator.

That's true. But the point is;It's not.

People probaly just do it to try and look cool and gain some friends.



stone taurus
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Nick Danger
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commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 12:24pm
Mods should be allowed to break the TOS, so that they have that much more to look forward to when moderating.


commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 02:18pm
Poor Zahir, the worst part about it is that the people who really need to listen to this won't pay attention to because they are too busy being stupid and blaming everyone else for their problems



Storm Rao
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davidcrossfan06
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commentCommented on: Mon Jul 04, 2005 @ 04:15pm
Oh Zahir, just say it. People suck. We hate them. pirate

The only thing people dislike about mods (scratch that - the only thing I dislike about mods) like you is that you can occasionally come across as patronising. I can't really quote anything in particular, it's just an attitude thing. Whilst I dislike, joke about, poke fun at this I still respect the work like people you do. At the same time, I dislike, joke about, poke fun at things I do. So what the s**t. Carry on doing whatever you do if you want. You can clearly see there are people who admire and respect you for it.

But if you're going to patronise other users (whether or not they deserve it) then they're going to be mean-spirited towards you, I guess. This will always be the case.

So hey.

I'll shut up now.

Feel free to flame me and stuff, guys.


commentCommented on: Tue Jul 05, 2005 @ 12:18pm
Why would we flame. Good point.



stone taurus
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Im the CIA bitch
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commentCommented on: Fri Jul 08, 2005 @ 11:09am
we the collective of the CIA view this to be true. we find that you work to hard and more mods are needed. but we think you should complain b***h moan and whine about it. it makes you human. and people need to understand your not a machine.


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