Another year will soon come to pass and I wanted to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for still being a friend and for being so kind to me. Words cannot express the happiness and the love I have for my beloved friends. Though we may not speak often or even see each other but do remember that I absolutely love you guys for being what friends are suppose to be, there for each other.
If I could dedicate a song to you, it would be from Theresa Teng - The Moon represents my heart.
ni wen wo ai ni you duo shen
wo ai ni you ji fen
wo de qing bu yi
wo de ai bu bian
yue liang dai biao wo de xin
You ask me how deep my love for you is,
How much I really love you…
My affection does not waver,
My love will not change.
The moon represents my heart.
If you're asking why the moon? It's because even on a moonless night, even if one cannot see the moon, and yet one knows the moon is there — somewhere out there.
I know that I'm suppose to start thanking all the people that got me those FANTASTIC gifts for Christmas. Truthfully and I must stress on the word truthfully, never did I expect those great great gifts from them.
I sold many of my old items to be able to afford the gifts this year since I no longer vend in the marketplace and didn't have extra cash anymore. I didn't expect any gifts in return but hoped that they would like the gifts I got them and oh boy was I surprised to see their gifts!
Lots of love and hugs to Ice Moon, DreamFusion and Devon!
I actually felt embarrassed thinking of the measly items I got them for Christmas now. I actually blushed when I opened their gifts and saw what they got me..
In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends..
- Martin Luther King Jr.
- Martin Luther King Jr.
This guy knew what he was saying when he said that, salute!
I didn't like this year 2007 much cause this didn't seem like a good year for me. Christmas turned out unexpected for me and was great but as the year edge closer and closer to 2008, I'm left feeling somewhat confused.
I'm currently visiting my boyfriend, Ian in Kuala Lumpur and also I was to attend two weddings (in a row) >.<;;
After the wedding, I'm left with the feeling of anger, disappointment and let down but mostly shocked.
Well, you see, I suppose you would be too if a VERY close friend (male) of yours and a long time good buddy of your boyfriend's decided to DATE your current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend and didn't even have the courtesy to inform you well ahead of time to at least give you time to mentally prepare yourself. Sure this probably doesn't seem like a big deal to most but it bothered me that;
Maybe some are fine with meeting your boyfriend's ex girlfriend but to me I just wished that someone informed me. I knew that someday I'll most definitely bump into her but I didn't expect my boyfriend good friend to date her and bring her to a wedding.
Probably the guys wouldn't cringe but us fellow girlfriend who put themselves in my shoes definitely would. And cringe I did.
I hold no grudges against her but for her to actually date your ex-boyfriend's friend of all the sudden is too weird for me. Furthermore, this "good" friend of ours actually hang out with us often and made no mention of going after her and it seems that they were "going out" for over 2 months now. One word: WOW!
I have my own principles and I would NEVER date a good friend's ex-boyfriend unless I actually asked for permission. As weird as it all sounds here but to me it's all a matter of RESPECT.
I did asked this "good" friend of ours about how long it's been going on and in his defense mentioned he told my boyfriend about him wanting to go after her months ago.
One problem, going after and going out with is completely different. He's 28 years old and can't tell the difference? Great!
It's true that he doesn't have to tell or offer an explanation to anyone regarding who he dates but this is a friend's ex and a close friend at that. AND the fact that I was close to him as well, can't he have a little respect for me as Ian's current girlfriend to at the very least inform me that he'll be bringing Ian's ex to the wedding?
He came over halfway through the dinner to inform me that the girl he bought to the date was Ian's ex girlfriend and I told him I knew from all the tongues wagging. He did apologize profusely. I asked him then why he lied to Devon when he told her that his current gf is from Singapore when this girl is actually local. His excuse, she's holds a Singapore PR. Yea, sure and when was the last time she was even back in Singapore? Why beat around the bush? If you love a girl and have the guts to even date your good friend's ex, announce it loud and proud, why hide like a mouse and only confess when cornered and left without an alternative? Is that how we should treat our good friends who's been good friend with you for over a decade.
It's not as bad as it sounds but when I look at Ian, I do get a little worried about him. Like I said, I was expecting us (me and his ex) to bump into each other (not unexpectedly of course) but for Ian learn that his good friend was dating his ex for two months without him even having a clue and just showing up with her one day seems to be a shock for him. Also they didn't exactly had a good break up, he found out that she cheated and the rest is history.
*sigh*
Just one more drama to make 2007 all the more dramatic.
MUAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA!!!
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Anyways, I'd comment on your drama, but its probably resolved by now (or at least I hope it is). All I would say on it is that boys are pretty much clueless to these things. We aren't exactly the most sensitive creatures, so expecting us (by us I mean other guys) to actually pay attention to another's feelings is like asking someone to sell you an angelic halo for ohh.. say 774 gold. xd
But in all seriousness, I definitely agree that a little forewarning to you guys that he'd be bringing her would have been a good idea. Were they sitting at your table during reception/dinner?