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While in great despair of seeing my desktop with whooping numbers of excel files and several concerns from different people that –come to think of it, really not my concern, in the first place— deals with business plan for a big union of workers and a corporate bulletin for internal auditors…



I need a break.



And only a blog can suffice this kitkat craving. Hehe!



I browsed R. Greene’s Art of Seduction (I have a soft copy of the book and interested parties can IM me for a copy for free smile ) and found this one to quote (really not from Greene and an also-quoted one in his book, this is what you call—double dead):



It will be greatly to your advantage to entertain the lady you would win with an account of the number of women who are in love with you, and of the decided advances which they have made to you; for this will not only prove that you are a great favorite with the ladies, and a man of true honor, but it will convince her that she may have the honor of being enrolled in the same list, and of being praised in same way, in the presence of your other female friends. This will greatly delight her, and you need not be surprised if she testifies her admiration of your character by throwing her arms around your neck on the spot. —LOLA MONTEZ, THE ARTS AND SECRETS OF BEAUTY, WITH HINTS TO GENTLEMEN ON THE ART OF FASCINATING



Huwaat!!



So, former relationships really matter?



I mean, not the relationship itself, but the person you’d been with?



Huwaat!! <insert devastating reaction>



And if the statement is true, there are only two criteria wherein people will tend to fall: the one taking advantage of their past relationships and the regretfuls..



To what criteria do I belong? Mmm.. lemme think..





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Better shut up before some people will have the idea to crash my site.. hehehe!



So end point is, never go for a relationship that will hinder your future advantages. Falling for a person is really a decision.. like investing to corporate stocks?!? razz



Now, desirability is really a social illusion. Own it. And get what you want most.