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There is a breaking limit to how far someone will go when you're having a hard time.

I think I have a pretty huge limit, but that's only my opinion. But, for me, when the person you give up work for, give up time for, ignore your own needs for. When the person who needed you to go round to their house at 11:30 at night to comfort them; who needs you to go get them lunch and glasses of water cause they just won't. When they decide that you deserve to bare the grunt of her frustration, hurt and abuse because they've decided they don't want your advice anymore; even though they continue to tell you that they're hurting and they don't know how to make it better. But you continue to do the best you can to give them advice you think they need to here, be it hard or easy advice.

Then all of a sudden they know what will make them better; and all the advice you gave them, they don't want and it's not gong to help because they know them self better then you do. And the solutions turns out to be them being a bitchy to you because being cold and spiteful helps them vent her anger.... that's where i draw my line.

Be it harsh or cold... or be it bad friendship protocol, that's where I go away before I start taking a leaf out of their book and taking my frustration out on them. That's the best I have, an if it's not good enough for you, don't ask for it... please?.... cause you may be having a hard time, but making my time hard, isn't going to make your time easier, it's just going to make me angry... and hurt... and spiteful. like you. And then I won't be able to help. Even if after all of that; you decide you want me to.