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sometimes when you don't know what to do..you just need to break down and cry....


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  • User Comments: [1]
    i disagree.
    if u dont know what to do
    talk to the person you are trying to help.
    talk to yourself.
    seek for answers instead of giving up.
    and if you truly dont know what to do
    after you've done everything humanly possible to find out what you should do,
    then you can let the matter go.
    don't blame it on yourself and beat yourself up over it.
    and if it concerns friends, there's always 3 things you can do.
    1. listen
    2. be there for them
    3. tell them how much you love them.

    remember if we truly want to be happy
    and get over things that destroy us,
    we would.
    but sometimes people actually WANT to be sad
    they want to give up
    and be miserable.
    because they dont know another way.
    because its their way of saying "hey, i need someone, something"
    "help me".

    ive learned in life that there's no point to it.
    sure, we're humans, and it happens.
    but theres no need for it to torment us so long.
    we are only here to learn.
    and our attachment to things is what makes it hard to learn.
    hard to see.

    so meditate.
    have you done everything humanly posible?
    is there REALLY a reason you should be worrying?
    is it just you?
    is it something inside you?
    what do you feel?
    do you think its just suffering?
    do you think theres no way out?
    that no one cares?
    do you see something that you could learn from this experience?

    i love you lin.
    and only letting go of things that arent important,
    of things that we shouldnt even be worrying ourselves with;
    provides us peace of mind.
    and once you feel peaceful and loved
    you'll be truly happy.

    dont let things block your thinking.
    look past them,
    and always ask yourself
    "what do i need to learn from this experience?"



    take care lil sis n-n
    hope this helped.
    heart

    comment KikiRevolution · Community Member · Mon Apr 02, 2007 @ 07:56pm
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