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Super Panda's Journal of life, ice cream, drift and all that.
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I have been thinking...
Attraction:
My definition of attraction is hard to put into words. But I will try...
Looks are a factor, much like a cover of a book. Human nature dictates that something that looks appealing is worth a secound look. A crusty old book may have a better more interesting story, but somthing more presentable would catch my eye.
However looks can not make up for substance. Looks may spark initial attraction, but if you are boring and uninteresting then you won't be attractive much longer. I have found that if your interests don't appeal or match the other person's; then the other person will no longer be attracted, or will be less attracted.
If you pick up a shiny looking book or a crusty one for that matter and the story isn't interesteing, or exciting, you are going to put it down again.
Thats probably why you become friends with people who share the same interests.
So I think that is what has been the problem with me. I see a girl I like, she may seem initaly interested, but then as soon as I open my mouth or exibit unattractive body language or somthing, I don't know what, they seem to what to brush me off.
I guess, me as a person is unnattractive.
People arn't interested enough to want to bother getting to know me.
It seems like I am always the one trying to make conversation, and most of the time it usually feels like its a conversation thats going up hill.
I don't see the point of trying anymore, if I keep getting rejected.
If some one actually shows interest in me and makes a effort to want to get to know me, then cool. Very cool. But I don't see that happening. Since its never really happened, ever.
I do believe that there is some one out there for every one, but i also think that the person out there for me is taken...
How many people actually look at and read this journal? Is it even worth me bothering to type down whats been going on with me?
 Super Panda454 · Sun Feb 20, 2005 @ 04:36pm · 3 Comments |
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