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he says:
Ok, I live in the states (mainly California). I know a 40+ woman in Japan. Here's the situation

- I'm somewhat checking back up on her because some time ago we stopped talking right when she was at an iffy decision of marrying one of her other friends.

- she once wanted to marry me but decided that it was better not to in fear of alienating me from my parents

-I'm 19 (yeah, 20+ age difference)

- I would be moving to Japan if I decided to get together with her.

- she is still able to have children

- She offered to help me get japanese lessons, a job, etc. while living in Japan. But for the first year I would probably be an at home husband.

- She also offered to help me go to college for my dream of being a comic/manga artist and or writer.

- we do love eachother in ways, and that we would be faithful to our marriage

If she is still iffy about not marrying the guy or has decided not to should I go after her? My at home situation is getting pretty annoying plus I want to get started with my life basically because I feel like it is sort of on pause now. I am highly considuring it but I want to see outside perspectives.

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so i say:
gullible AND dumb.
she's 40 ...
she's japanese ... you can't even speak japanese.
she's across the ocean.
you've never met her.

yes, i completly see how thats love. congradulations, its a boy.