My ideal guy:

-has darkish hair
-has darkish eyes
-semi-athletic
-can make me laugh and smile when I'm very upset
-loves me for me
-semi-serious
-won't force me to do anything I don't want to do
-caring
-loving
-won't hurt me
-committed to me
-able to bring me out of my shell
-won't lie to me

I know, I have high expectations.