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;-; can i like him or is it forbidden?
I just realized that i like my friend...a lot. It didn't hit me till after our drama production cast party was over that i realized it. We were talking and i was having an awesome time....but then he asked me what lunch(we have 3 different lunches) i had this year,i kinda blushed(which doesn't happen often with him), and i told him first lunch throughtout the whole year....and well he said 'oh' but looked sad. On the way home i kept wondering why i blushed...then it hit me, i was starting to like him. But my friend also likes him...a lot and she told me this last year. So i can't go up to her and say "hey yeah i like him now too, what ya know?" It would be awkward...and cruel in my opinion and i wonder if there ever comes a day when he tells me he likes me(IF being the key word) that way also then i don't think i could say that i like him that way too because of my friend...it would make me feel like i stabbed her in the back and like ran off with him.....why are emotions so complicated gonk crying ? So in your people's opinion what should i do?


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  • User Comments: [3]
    From personal experience, I think you should ask him. Or atleast tell your friend.

    I didn't do either one time, and one of my friends went out with a girl I was starting to really like. And then their relationship fell apart and she got really hurt by it. I tried to be there for her as much as possible, but after her fall out of the previous relationship she didn't look forward to being in one with someone else, even though it was I who was there for her still.

    It's cruel and it hurts to do something against your friends, but it hurts all the more when you do nothing at all. And even if he doesn't like you as much as you like him, and your friend might slightly resent you for doing it. You'll feel better knowing you did something about it other than just sitting away and watching from the sidelines.

    Watching from the sidelinds is painfull, Like being at the edge of a race track when there's a big crash. The two people's relationship crashes before your eyes, and you think- 'If it were I in the car, would we have finished the race?'

    But Asking that questin brings you to reality, a painful one at that. Because the question is hardly ever answered after that, atleast in my opinion and experience.

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    All the advice I give is to either tell him, or your friend. It's easier once you do, cause even if it goes wrong after that, you can tell yourself that you tried.

    comment Maxwell Carrigan · Community Member · Sun Nov 27, 2005 @ 07:05pm
    wai~ crying Yugi, your so nice, thank you for your advice. crying

    comment Minasilly · Community Member · Mon Nov 28, 2005 @ 02:54am
    *comforts you best I can* now, cheer up 3nodding . I'm sure that things will go good, and even if they don't I'm positive you can come out of it a better and more experienced person. *hug*

    comment Maxwell Carrigan · Community Member · Mon Nov 28, 2005 @ 09:28pm
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