Gays
Homos
Homosexuals
Lesbians
Lezbos
Bisexuals
Whatever you want to call them. They are real people. People with the same feelings that you have. With the same body parts and the same minds. The only thing that is different is that they are attracted to certain people.
Gays. Homos. Homosexuals. When a person is gay or more likely that a boy is gay, they are attracted to other boys.
Lesbians. Lezbos. A lesbian is girls that are attracted to other girls.
Bisexuals. Bi's. They are the people that are a certain percent gay and a certain percent lesbian. It's where a boy or girl likes both genders. They can be attracted to both. They can fall in love with both. They can date both.
But then there are the homophobs. They are afraid of homosexuals. I can guess that they are afraid that a gay or lesbian will try and make a move on them when they don't want them to. These kind of people think that being gay or lesbian is wrong, that they are disgusting for being so.
I can proudly say that I'm bisexual. I am more attracted to girls then guys, but guys can still flip my switch. I knew I was bi the moment I kissed another girl. That was in kindergarden. Then when I grew a little older, I messed around with other girls. I thought it was normal. Guys didn't like girls and other girls said guys had coodies. I'm sure all of the boys said the same.
I became aware that I was seriously bisexual when I was attracted to my friend, Sara. She was pretty and I began to have feelings for her. Like a normal girl would a boy. But she was a girl. But I felt no shame in it. One day, I told her that I liked her and that, if she wanted to, we could date. She told me she was bi and said yes. I was happy. We both came out to my mother on a Halloween night. I told my mother that I was dating Sara and I liked girls and guys both the same.
But that was back then. Me and Sara aren't dating anymore, but we still have enough feelings for each other to mess around from time to time. I also mess around with a girl named Emily. She and Sara are best friends. But me and Emily and Sara are best friends all together. Though, me and Sara tend to fight a lot and break apart, we just can't ignore each other forever. So we forgive each other and make up. Till the next fight, of course.
At this moment, Sara claims to be in love with a girl she met online. I don't mind. As long as she is happy and still willing to mess around from time to time, I'll suport her through it. Emily is dating my good friend Mike Smith. He's really funny and a very good friend. He's a fool most of the time, but when you want to have a serious conversation, he's there for you. He cares alot for Emily and vise versa.
As for me, I was dating a girl named Amber. I liked her a lot. There are still days that I wish I could still be with her. That I could kiss her again. That I could call her without the cold harsh '******** you' comment. As you can see, we had to break up. We just didn't fit together, as she called it. I called it cheating. But to each her own, right? She was beautiful, though. But beauty isn't everything if you don't have a true heart.
Being gay or bi is cool and all. But it can get pretty hard in the real world. There are a lot of people that don't like gays and bi's. I went through that in school, when I first came out openly. It was scary and I felt that no one was on my side. Even my friends treated me cold and acted like they didn't know me. 'Lezbo' was scatched on my locker a few times. I was jumped a few times too. All for being bisexual. All for being myself and trying to be happy. Names were spat at me in the hallways and notes were thrown at me with close to death threats on them. I'll admit, I was really scared. But after a few weeks, people in my school got over it. There were still the few stuborn people who refused to accept it. But I'm not trying to please them. After all the drama was over, people became my friend again. Apologies were spread at me far and wide. I accepted all of them of course. But it still hurt that they treated me differnt just cuase I labeled myself a bisexual. They acted fine around me when I didn't come out. But I was still bi, they just didn't know. I guess some things are better off unsaid. But I knew I had to say something or else I would be miserable. I didn't want to hide my comments about hot girls or that guys didn't really do it for me. Well, they do, but hardly.
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