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Wed Jul 16, 2008 2:26 pm
Well, today sucks.
As it turns out my Aunt Nancey died a couple days back, her funeral is tomorrow.
My mom's sister whom had breast cancer, and was fighting about the house left by their mom.. just arg...
Can't get a hold of mom, left a message -_-; she's in a woman's shelter for now..
Called Tiffany & William, and got William he was working but said he'll let Tiffany know.
..I didn't know her well, but she wasn't a bad woman.
She had my cousin Hannah. Married a few times, last being the British uncle Brad.
The last husband before him was an Arab, Uncle Suehell whom tried to take my twin and I when we were young once their dad died (mom & Nacey's) he becmae the oldest male so he was in charge.
Dad disagreed, and physically took us from his house.
Aunt Nacey had some hard times lately..she was very tall and thin later had cancer, didn't do a lot of moving around so gained weight.. I hadn't seen her since they moved into another home.
Uncle Brad's an atheist tore apart her bible page by page.. a friend of hers had put it together for her only so he got in a fight with her tearing it apart.
Those are he last thoughts? My mother's in a woman shelter, her little sister.. only family she has left in this world besides her daughter who wants to become a marine biologist.
-sigh- I don't know how old she was. She's a bit older than my mom I'd say 50's or so by now.. but even so.. and with cancer I didn't expect to hear that she died.
Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:12 am
My mom called to confirm "Its true, she died on July 11th. I was just thinking that day, when Nancey was 11 I was 7."
She's scared to go to the funeral just because of Brad. I told her to go anyway, she asked if dad and I were going, Addison said we're expecting people to visit for the office so we couldn't.
And she's upset about the obituary. Mentions only Brad as a loving husband and their daughter Hannah... of a 14 year marriage.
Yes, legally. But Hannah's 17 now, he just dosen't want the news to cross back to the U.K. for his daughter Georgena to get involved... he didn't notify family. He didn't mention their brother Bob, (He passed when I was little.) or my mother.
Mom's going to the funeral, late but she's trying to make it.. don't know if she'll be placed by their parents as planned, or what he'll do. She might be cremated, don't know.
When their mother's will was written she knew Aunt Nancey's husband then Uncle Suehell couldn't have kids. So, she said everything was to be left between her children, Aunt Nancey, Uncle Bob and my mother. But now it's just my mother, and the will dose state that it goes to the living one.
But Brad's pushing now that it's left to Hannah. How, Aunt Nancey wanted to fight to gain it all, and get a one story house, and well... don't know what will become of it.
The house was to be sold and the money divided equally after their mother passed...but they dragged on, my mother lived there when she divorced with my father.
As the land price rose, they took it to court, evicted my mother and she's in a shelter now.
-sigh- I don't know what will come of this.. Tiffany and I are our mother's last living family.
Tiffany's far off, and I'm not as far, but it's upsetting knowing how alone my mother must feel now.. even more so how Uncle Brad didn't even bother letting her know or anything.
It's just upsetting... I'm trying not to think about it, but she called me asking if we're going... I couldn't... she wouldn't be how I knew her.
Well.. going to the midnight showing of the Dark Knight tonight.
Bought our tickets in advance, so we're able to go, get in line about 9pm for good seats.
We'll eat some chicken bites, bought at the store yesterday. Just eat at home, go, bring the snacks we picked out and just see this movie.
Maybe go again Friday morning with dad and Brian. If Eden is off work, she might I don't know.
That's been what Addison and I have been looking forward to.. and I asked him to have a pleasant day no mater what for today so we may enjoy it.. and now I'm upset.. irony at its best ... -sigh-
I'm more or less, upset I didn't take more time to know her. Let alone, others I miss or haven't seen in a while.. just a guilty feeling of "Oh, I haven't seen so-in-so in a while.." It sucks.
 Quel marth · Thu Jul 17, 2008 @ 08:52pm · 0 Comments |
