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And then get pissed off when I give it to you.

Yes, you. You know this one's about you. I don't know why you try so ******** hard to get my approval. From nearly half an hour of conversation yesterday, you still couldn't tell me a single thing about this person you've taken such an interest in. Face it. You don't know s**t about him. You've "known" him for three years, as you say, and you still don't know s**t about him. Also, your newest 10-second crush is mentally underdeveloped. At his age, his priorities should include more than cartoons and comic books. The guy has a family to care for, and instead he's making promises to an underaged teen who's so ready for his immediate attention that she can't see this is just another big disappointment waiting to happen. I mean, honestly. Sometimes, thinking with your head instead of your gut feelings is a good thing. There's something seriously wrong with a guy who says he wants to leave his wife and kid and says, "Oh, I wish you were two years older so I can be with you!"

HELLO! This guy wishes you were OLDER so he can't be arrested for what he's thinking about doing, but won't SAY to your face because he knows it'll make you turn around and leave!

Contrary to what you may think, not every guy in the world who takes an interest in you is automatically some knight in shining armor. Look deeper than the five-second, first-time crush and stare the facts right in the face. Are you seriously considering taking in a guy who bases his life around pure hedonism? This is absolutely ridiculous. Yes. I said it. It's ******** nuts. That's my opinion. That's the conclusion I formed from what you were able to give me. And, to be perfectly honest, that's all I need.