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In the mind of Krista
This is where I, Krista will be talking about whats happening to me irl, fun stuff, my feelings, my thoughts, all of it will be put into here.
Need Help on this one...
What would you do....

Okay as some of you may know. Those who I've talked to about this, me and Jason (The guy I'm suppose to be marrying) have been fighting lately. Its not over petty stuff either.

He changed and become an a** to me lately. The thing that started this was me getting a phone bill. See I'm the reason he has his phone, so when it came in my name of course I opened it up. Its was 12 pages worth. Okay I'm thinking no big deal that pretty normal..That was until I started looking though the pages.

6 of those 12 pages was a dating service. When I asked him about it, he said he was just playing around it was nothing serious. But I can't understand it, why when you got a women who love you and is willing to give you everything, you turn to a dating service.

I got told I was over reacting and well because he said it I though my ring back at him.

Now today I was looking at his picture on his cell phone, and there wasn't an area I could get to. I asked him if I could look at it, well he unlocked it and there was pictures of women asses.

Its like having my heart ripped out twice, how he gonna have women asses on his phone and not expect me to get angry? Speically when none of them our mine? At that point I told him to ******** off.

I really don't know what to do. I can't stand this anymore. But I know if I talk to him he gonna win me over like always, because I still love him and want it to work out. So can I get some help in what to do?


Krista DarkAngel Silme
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  • User Comments: [4]
    Alright, sweetie, I know you aren't going to like what I have to say, but these are my thoughts. Having just kicked a cheating a*****e to the curb, you might disregard this as a bitter woman talking, but you know me better than that. [i]Break things off with him.[/i] For those of you who might read this, I know a bit more about the situation that Krista has typed up in her journal. I would have kicked his a** out of my life a long time ago, even if I did love him. There is a point when you have to stop and ask yourself if you are even happy anymore. 1) The dating service. Come [i]on[/i] now, Kris. Something like that shows that he doesn't have enough respect for you to be even [i]mostly[/i] faithful. As you pointed out why would he go there if he has you? It is hard to accept, but you need to confront him about whether or not he is playing you. If he has gone [i]beyond[/i] dating services. If he can't respect your feelings, or appreciate what you give him, you need to get him away from you. 2) The pictures. Now, I understand about pr0n and what-not. I am fine with all of that. But, it was in [i]really[/i] bad taste for him to let you see he has that on the phone. Things like that . . . well, it is natural, as much as I hate it. Guys, and girls, will almost always fantasize about what they don't have. 3) The fighting. It is healthy to fight, but not [i]all[/i] of the time. Again, you really need to step back and re-evaluate the relationship. If you are not happy, yet you stay with him, you will resent him. Then, any chance that you might still be friends at some point down the road is lost. Also, if only one of you is putting forth an effort to change things, to work things out, you need to take [i]that[/i] into consideration. You need to ask yourself, as much as it will hurt, if that means he even wants to be in the relationship anymore. I will talk to you more whenever I see you online. *hug* I hope I wasn't too harsh, but I hate seeing women put up with this stuff. . . .

    comment Lenore Silme-Natenhar · Community Member · Fri Jul 22, 2005 @ 09:34am
    I agree 100% with lenore on this one Krista

    comment Shicala · Community Member · Sat Aug 13, 2005 @ 12:44am
    Total agreement with Lenore's comment, with even more emphasis on the idea of breaking things off as quickly as possible. I'm sorry you're having to go through this- you deserve better. *hugs*

    comment Rube Garret · Community Member · Wed Aug 17, 2005 @ 11:57am
    I know how much you wanted this to work, but the others are right hun. I'm sorry. You deserve much better.

    comment Draconayzia · Community Member · Thu Aug 18, 2005 @ 05:28am
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