It's always different in the beginning, with love I mean. You think you would never once get mad at the person you love, or it will be the same for them.
Being human, we do things in our own way, never once think that what we do as habit, others may not like.
As we grow close to someone, we are attatched by something that person does, or in their personality. Then, as you get to know them you find things you don't like and displeased with it, what you would do with anything you would try and fix it. Finding the dislikes in your loved one, you expectd them to change for you. Everything they are, they would change just for you, because they love you.
Yet, I realize, we humans fear change when it is something we are used to. We fight back what caused the fear in hopes that it will not happen again. We feel betrayed by the other for wanting them to become a perfect mold of what they invision and wanting them to become something they are not.
Infact, I have come to the conclusion, wheather it is right or wrong, we should accept them as they are, knowing they will not change unless they wish it so. If they love you enough and know what you dislike about them, on their own, will change for you and only to make you happy.
That is what love is, to sacrifice yourself and your habits for someone you love.
[[Random jibberish >_O;;]]
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